Monday, 3 June 2019

MEN-CAP'S LEARNING DISABILITY WEEK 17TH JUNE TILL THE 23RD JUNE 2019

This report is to raise awareness of disability and sport, in my case Dyspraxia sport. This is a chance for my members who face disabilities on my disability groups on facebook to raise awareness of what they face with having disabilities etc and experiences with the sport to people involved in their lives such as parents, families, carers, friends, partners, support workers, social workers, professions, etc, even people who are training or and study in the fields disabilities or all other problems.

Here's a bit about me, when I was a child there was no awareness of dyspraxia and a lot of other disabilities, learning difficulties, etc. I hated PE, in those days we had ladders and ropes which I never felt safe but I still had to do PE, even with the teachers holding on to me as I climbed the ladders. In terms of help and support, there wasn't any because no one knew anything or and very little what disabilities, etc neither did the people ourselves. The help and support I needed were physical help me get a least a bit stronger, old school ladders and ropes are not safe for people with Dyspraxia. Sports such as netball, hockey, and rounders I never coped with. I weren't too bad with throwing a ball but catching a ball I had problems with and I found it hard to keep up with speed still do.

On the positive side, I can swim but it looks like a doggy paddle and something else, I very slow but safe as long as I'm keeping an eye, but I'm not a bad or a great swimmer.

Sunday, 2 June 2019

ALWAYS LEARN ABOUT DISABILITY + NEVER JUDGE DISABILITY AND DISABILITY DISCUSSION SUPPORT WORLD WIDE AND UK.GROUP

Supporting one another on Always Learn About Disability + Never Judge Disability.
Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness and Advocacy for ‘ Always Learn About Disability + Never Judge disability. My Career. I am a Visiting Lecture Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness trainer for The University Of Wolverhampton training

My Career.

I am a Visiting Lecture Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness trainer for The University Of Wolverhampton training and educating the Student Learning Disability nurses plus I am also an English student at the Adult Learning college Wolverhampton. I have disabilities and health problems myself so does my ex-partner Tim Hodge who has now stepped down as a member now. This is through 1st hand experiences from having disabilities and health problems ourselves. 
Aims of Learning Disability and Mental Health awareness and All Advocacy.

'Learn About The Disability + Never Judge Disability' is a Learning Disability and Advocacy group all in one. For learning disability and mental health awareness it raises awareness of people with disabilities and health problems access all areas of life such as health, housing, careers, talent, social issues, Disabled Access, Disabled aids, Advocacy and etc.  People with disabilities and health problems raise awareness to people without disabilities and health problems who work in the field of disabilities and health problems. The idea is for people to learn about how people disabilities and health problems access all topics of life and how to making learning easy for people with disabilities and health problems from people with disabilities and health problems.
People who work in the field of learning disabilities and health problems could work in different services such as schools, Employment services, Health services, Education services and etc. You could be a professions, family member, parents or just parent; teacher, tutor, trainer, doctor, nurse and etc. Whether you have very little or a lot of experience with the field of disabilities and health problems this group is open to you if you want to join us.  

What is Advocacy?

Public Advocacy is about empowering and support people with disabilities and health problems to speak up for their right.
You are more than welcome to Disabled Advocacy group.
You can make your own choices, control and ideas as long as you share with the group and respect the group's wishes, which could come into Person Centered Planning.

You are welcome to set up your own projects as a group.
The Disabled Advocacy group is chance to us your voice and have your own say like the aware group I have just set up.
Private Advocacy is more legal and Illegal Advocacy that links around such topics as hate crime, benefits, benefit cut, fit for work, not fit for work and etc. 


I understand that the government can make us angrily. You are more than welcome to debate but please draw the line. Bearing in mind I have disabilities and health problems as well one of mine is Anxiety.

Now those of us who suffer from Anxiety can get up tight easy. If you feel tense come off this group until you feel ready to face the group again.

A word of advice if you feel like that come off for the Disabled Advocacy group for a bit then come on whenever you feel clam enough again to come back on.

 The idea of this topic is the about the positives and negative people with disabilities and health problems face in life.
This is a chance for people with disabilities and health problems to raise awareness to though with without, which could be to professions, services, carers, families and etc.


You will be allowed to send posts, write post, videos and reports on anything to do with learning disability and mental health awareness.
This could mean things Communication, Accessible Information, Person Centered Planning, Valuing People Now and etc. 

The purpose of the groups.  


This group is set for those who face disabilities, health problems, mental health, disorders, long-term conditions or and etc facing all emotional issues, please feel free to ask you to PM, everything you say is private but if we have any concerns about your health or and safety will speak to another Admin our Admin team and if who replies to your message not trained or and qualified to help with what you're asking then we will find someone on the team or elsewhere who or where is.

Free to ask to pm us, the reason why we may ask is that some Admins may not want to pm people they don't so please respect. However' if you have spoken to one of us or few on pm and that's anyone, in particular, you want to speak to again and the Admin fine about it, that's no problem. It doesn't mean you have to be feeling down, feel free to do so if you want to or need to if the Admin is okay with it, not they will try to find an Admin who will but search for further help if not. From my own experience, most of us feel down with or without a reason, just with a reason or just without one.

Please also respect that some Admins may be a bit wavy if they don't know people but they will ask others on the team or if no one knows we will search for further help, which could mean contacting Admins on groups not much different to ours. Also, here another list issues we deal with, which could post or and get support with if you need to.



Just to let you know so there's no misunderstanding of this private issues won't be posted on the group and please report it to us if you have told someone on you have pmed who you thought you could and if they have put it on the group.


Feel free to post these topics on the purpose and ask Admins to talk or and support but some Admins may not want to or may not be trained. However' they will Admins on the team who may be about to if not if they don't know you but they will search for further help even it means us contacting other Admin from other groups the same or and not much different to us.
Names of people of the Admin team and Topics of the group examples of what you can post, talk about on the group to members and Admin or and what you may pm an Admin about is on the Descriptions on the right - hand side plus website links too, thank you.

Safeguarding socializing.


We have set this group up for people with disabilities to socialize to your our own choice as long as you respect the feelings of others. Communicate, make friendships, relationships to your choice as long as others feel the same. Also feel free to chat to members of the group if you wish. However' we are a team of Admins with different skills what 1 of us can't-do the other can and if none of us can we will search for further help. If you ask us to we will find your information or and websites online such as friendship or and dating sites, counseling. disability issues, mental health issues or and etc. We are not what you call a dating site we don't match make people together the choices are between you or whoever but please at accept one another's feelings if 1 doesn't feel the same as the other. Please do not force someone to feel the same as you may feel about them but if you wish to ask us for websites on friendship, dating or and etc please feel free to do so. Also, you can ask us for websites, information and etc online on counseling if you wish, whether you have faced disappointing on and off the group or even both. If you wish to talk about your issues with us, by all means, please do pm us if you wish to. We respect what's private to you but please request if an Admin is not sure about anything they will speak to another Admin and if no one can help in the team we will look for counseling services if you wish within your area. Nothing will be said outside pm, only if there's something we don't know which will be said to only the Admin team or if we feel concerned about your safety for whatever reason and that will only be said to the Admin team too.



Also, please respect Admins and also we feel it's only fair that we request you.
Although what you do with your lives is none of our business we do care about your safety and your feelings about others but we also accept that's your choice as long the choice is down to the members who you socialize with too meaning things you do and don't do.
Sorry to confuse you but although we don't accept sexual post socially on the group, we do accept sexually awareness as far as health and safety concerned meaning if you wish you could ask on the group if there's an Admin who is willing pm you. We would advise you not to say on the group what it's about.
feel free to ask us to look on online for conception, pregnancy and or sexual health advice please, before you do ask the admin if he or she is okay to do that, if not they will find someone else on the team, if for any reason no one can or doesn't want to, we will search for further help such as contacting other Admins on groups not much different to ours.

Sorry to sound harsh but as we know not everyone knows everyone on Facebook. Although, this is a Socializing group the choice down to whether you talk to the members or not. The choice down to you to decide whether you want to just talk the group, pm or what as long you respect how others feel and what they say. For example, if someone doesn't want you to pm them don't pm them. Same with Admins too, if an Admin doesn't want you to be pmed don't pm, ask them to find out if there's anyone on the team who will you. The Admin is not been rude or nasty, it will either be because they don't know you or and they don't know anything about what you're asking for but they will work hard to find who or and where will. Do remember won't necessarily get the same reply off everyone. However' if either, one or some of us have pmed you a lot in the past and you know you happy to speak to whoever and whoever is happy to speak to you then that's acceptable.
This group is up for people with disabilities to socialize to your our own choice as long as you respect the feelings of others. Communicate, make friendships, relationships to your choice as long as others feel the same. Also feel free to chat to members of the group if you wish. However' we are a team of Admins with different skills what 1 of us can't-do the other and if none of us can we will search for further help. If you ask us to we will find your information or and websites online such as friendship or and dating sites, counseling. disability issues, mental health issues or and etc. More information about the group and safety rules, the name of Admins and our website is in the description on the right-hand side.

Topics On This Group.
1. Health – Anything to do with the health of people with disabilities and health problems.
2. Housing – Accessible housing for disabled people, disability aids, disabled access and etc in the home.
3. Careers – Education and Employment for Disabled People.
4. Talent – Hobbies, interests, arts, craft and etc which can either be in the home, socially or and in a career.
5. Social issues – Friendship, dating, going places, counseling, emotional support and etc.
6. Disabled Access – For e.g; wheelchairs, car parks, disabled aids, getting around on transport out and + etc.
7. Public Advocacy – Empowering and supporting people with disabilities and health problems to speak for their rights. For eg; (Person Centred Planning.)
8. Private Advocacy is mostly legal and illegal Advocacy such as hate crime, discriminating, benefit cuts, fit for work, not fit for work and etc.
9. (‘ Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness’) - people with disabilities and health problems training and educating those people without disabilities and health problems who are interested in working in the field of learning disability and health problems.


safety guarding and rules.
If there’s anyone you don’t get along with please don’t speak to them, we do not accept falling out!
Report anyone who upsets you, we will remove them if you ask us to!
No hate crime, please report if you face it, whoever is responsible for hate crime will be removed!
No sexual post but you can raise awareness of sexual health!
No advertising, no buying, and selling.
Safety rules.
1. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)

2. No out seen or sexual post.
3. No advertising product.
4. No talk of drugs unless it’s certain awareness of disabilities and health problems.
5. No porn.
6. No swearing


8. If by any chance to you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.
10. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to Facebook if you feel there's a need to do that. 
11. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know thank you.
12. Please do not join our groups on more than just two profile, it get's confusing for us, thank you. 
13. If someone is married or and in a relationship please accept or leave the group, please feel free to report a person tries to force into anything you don’t want.
14. Group set up for people to make their own choices and others should respect how they want things. 


15. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)
16. No bullying or hate crime, if you face any of this of anyone in this group please report to either me or the other Admins then we will remove them.
17. If by any chance to you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.
19. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to facebook if you feel there's a need to do that. 
20. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know thank you.
21. Please do not join our groups on more than just two profile, it get's confusing for us, thank you. 
22. If someone is married or and in a relationship please accept or leave the group, please feel free to report a person tries to force into anything you don’t want.
23. Group set up for people to make their own choices and others should respect how they want things.




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DISABILITY DISCUSSION AND SUPPORT WORLDWIDE.

Someone else created this group 19th April 2016 he left admin 6 months later for his own reason, it used to be called Always learn about disability + never Judge disability, 2 years later I moved it on an old music group created by me, then closed it before Xmas and created it on a new fresh group because I wanted to create it myself.
I myself was born lack of oxygen nearly 50 yrs in October, which caused me to have Epilepsy, Autism, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, Anxiety, and Depression. Back then there weren't any diagnose or support services etc, only knowing something was wrong.
When I was 37, I helped out with Mencap with a public Advocacy group called Our Shout with other people disabilities till 2011 when the government cut the funding. Two years before then Mencap supported me and someone else from Our Shout to have our enterprise, sadly it only lasted a year till the funding was cut from that. When I left Mencap in 2011.
I couldn't find anything else for a year and went into deep depression, I then helped out at a private disability Advocacy service called 1 Voice, help people with disabilities one to one like advise, etc if they had lost their benefits, then in 2015, i left one Voice and helped out at the university by me raising awareness of disability, mental health to student professionals such as Learning disability nurses and I still help them out ever so often now. Start of last year and the end of 2017 I achieved Mentoring Level 1 and 2.


This group is a chat group for people with disabilities or and all problems to support all ages but the group it's self are for adults 18 and over, service users, etc and people in your their lives such as parents, families, carers, social workers, support workers, professionals etc to talk about, post etc that all to issues of life to do with disabilities etc.
Please bear with us now as we are a very small team only me and Harry involved in the admin of the groups mostly but please feel free to talk to us if you want to or and need to, we don't bite, we will be the best help we can be but also we would most grateful if you can do your best help one another out as our Admin is very short these days as we said we will do the best to do what we can do.
Those of you who have been on this group since it was 1st set up with know it works the same as it always has done for the past 3 years. Those of you who don't know the way it works feel free to ask for support for disabilities etc you may face, which might be something to do with health, education, housing, employment etc, what me or and Harry don't know, we can do our best to search for elsewhere or and even the possibility of you talking to members on the group, which partly the purpose of this group.

This group is a disability chat, awareness, support, advocacy, mentoring, emotional support, even counseling group all in 1 for those who face disabilities or and all problems and for socializing. All people in the lives of people with disabilities are more than welcome such as parents, carers, families, friends, partners, social workers, professionals, which such issues as health, education, employment, hobbies, interests, social issues, etc.

Topics of the groups



1. Health – Anything to do with the health of people with disabilities and health problems.

2. Housing – Accessible housing for disabled people, disability aids, disabled access and etc in the home.

3. Careers – Education and Employment for Disabled People.

4. Talent – Hobbies, interests, arts, craft and etc which can either be in the home, socially or and in a career.

crosswords maybe puzzle page jokers corner, poets, corner, a photo corner

5. Social issues – Friendship, dating, going places, counseling, emotional support and etc.

6. Disabled Access – For e.g; wheelchairs, car parks, disabled aids, getting around on transport out and + etc.

7. Public Advocacy – Empowering and supporting people with disabilities and health problems to speak for their rights. For eg; (Person Centred Planning.)

8. Private Advocacy is mostly legal and illegal Advocacy such as hate crime, discriminating, benefit cuts, fit for work, not fit for work and etc.

9. (‘ Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness’) - people with disabilities and health problems training and educating those people without disabilities and health problems who are interested in working in the field of learning disability and health problems.
Here are roughly the things you may post, chat about etc.
1. Health – Anything to do with the health of people with disabilities and health problems.
2. Housing – Accessible housing for disabled people, disability aids, disabled access and etc in the home.
3. Careers – Education and Employment for Disabled People.
4. Talent – Hobbies, interests, arts, craft and etc which can either be in the home, socially or and in a career.
crosswords maybe puzzle page jokers corner, poets, corner, a photo corner
5. Social issues – Friendship, dating, going places, counseling, emotional support and etc.
6. Disabled Access – For e.g; wheelchairs, car parks, disabled aids, getting around on transport out and + etc.
7. Public Advocacy – Empowering and supporting people with disabilities and health problems to speak for their rights. For eg; (Person Centred Planning.)
8. Private Advocacy is mostly legal and illegal Advocacy such as hate crime, discriminating, benefit cuts, fit for work, not fit for work and etc.
9. (‘ Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness’) - people with disabilities and health problems training and educating those people without disabilities and health problems who are interested in working in the field of learning disability and health problems.
Safety rules.
1. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)
2. No bullying or hate crime, if you face bullying and hate crime please feel to report it us and we will see that an Admin who know how to report the person to facebook does that as long as you have proof and whatever happens that person will be removed and blocked from our groups.
3. No out seen or sexual post.
4. No advertising product.
5. No talk of drugs unless it’s a certain awareness of disabilities and health problems.
6. No porn.
7. No swearing
8. If by any chance you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.
9. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to Facebook if you feel there's a need to do that.
10. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know


We are updating this group today because someone who had been an admin in the past added someone with disabilities etc and there was nothing to say that works, a study in the disability field, etc on always learn about disability + never judge disability. Although we don't have the 3 questions are not on the requests of this group and always learn about disability + never judge disability we will be writing it on the pinned post and website links so can as many you as possible please answer, it's not to come down hard everyone, it's to try our hardest to keep everyone safe.

If you know either or all etc the admin, know people on this group or, you are on our groups, this group has been opened since April 2016 and you have been on this group a long time or since then, so therefore for those reasons you won't need to answer the 3 questions but if you are new don't know any of the members, admins etc, we would be grateful if as many of you as possible will, thank you form Sara Head Admin.

  1. Do you have disabilities or and all problems?
  2. Are you a parent, carer, service user, family member, partner, friend, social worker, support worker, professional for someone or people with disabilities, etc?
  3. Will you follow the safety rules.

Saturday, 1 June 2019

DISABLED SINGLES MAKING FRIENDS OR AND DATING WORLDWIDE.

This group is for single people disabilities or all problems who are hoping to make friends or and find a partner partner. It's down to you guys to chat to one another and get to know one, it's not telling you what to do it's just advise, life is what you make it. Do not force someone to be interested in you if they are not. Really truly speak love happens when your not looking, which is what happened to me and Harry. We would advise you to make friends with people and see what happens, we can't promise it will or won't happen that's down to how patience you are and if your not leave the group, don't take it out on people on the group, However, there are other groups similar and the same on the fb whether you chose to leave ours or not. Just to let know we don't chose people for you, you chose people yourself and please respect people's choices and feelings.
 This is now for making friends or and dating meaning if you are looking for partner that's still your choice but  still respect the choices and feelings of the members of the group because not everyone feels the same as everyone, most people may just want to be friends, most people may not want to be more than friends with you, however you never know you may have a friendship with someone where it may turn into more, it really is just wait and see because it's not our rights or yours to make people be anymore than they want to be but doesn't necessary mean you won't meet anyone. People come and go, please accept if you don't get who and want, more will be joining, if you are patience wait, if not leave the group do not take it out on people on the group. I know this slow but we can't force people to be people you may want them to be.
 It's down to you guys to chat to one another and get to know one, it's not telling you what to do it's just advise, life is what you make it. Do not force someone to be interested in you if they are not. Really truly speak love happens when your not looking, which is what happened to me and Harry. We would advise you to make friends with people and see what happens, we can't promise it will or won't happen that's down to how patience you are and if your not leave the group, don't take it out on people on the group, However, there are other groups similar and the same on the fb whether you chose to leave ours or not. Just to let know we don't chose people for you, you chose people yourself and please respect people's choices and feelings.
Feel free to introduce, tell members about yourself,  add a selfie but no nude post, keep it clean, keep it safe, have a chat and laugh etc as long it's nothing upset others, know that;s not always easy but always find out what does and doesn't upset members and please respect and accept that. 
Feel free to chat or and post to one another by getting to know people, general chat  or and post hobbies, interests, careers, talents, favorite music, film, how your like to socialize like going to the pub, pictures etc. 
We have 3 Admins on the team myself, Harry Cawood my partner and Judy Smith, please respect the Admins we try our best to help. 

1. No pming or and friend requesting without permission unless you know the person or and you have been pming one another already and already added as friend to them.
2. No socializing in anyway with Admins we are to safe guard and sort out problems you may face with the group or and members.
3. No porn.
4. No swearing
5. No rowing
6. No bullying or hate crime.
7. No blocking Admins or you will be blocked in the end.
8. Feel free to report people you may face problems with but provide us with proof of who, what happened and where so we don't block and remove people who done anything wrong by mistake.
9. No Nude post.
10. No dirty talk or post. 
11. Treat everyone on the group with respect. 
12. No buying and selling anything but donating charty is fine but even then don't force people to do so.
13. No giving or asking anyone for money.
14. No personal details on the groups like emails, phone numbers, addresses, passwords etc.  
15. If However, there are people who don't one another don't speak one another etc, which be another rule, if you can't see face them been on the group leave, they won't be blocked removed unless they do any bad to you on the group pm etc, anything that happen before you them joined this group we don't deal with we deal with what happens now and in the future, like we said in the rules proof is important we don't people who haven't done anything wrong.
16. If there are people you don't like and you can't communicate with them without a row etc, we advise you not to talk to them, if there's a reason why you think they shouldn't be online the group let us know and provide us proof of the reason why but if we see any reasons ourselves we will block and remove them.

ADVISE AND SAFETY TIPS.
1. Get know people on the group at least 6 to 12 months before you start to get involved, this may give you time to see if you like someone than just a friend or not and see if they feel the same way about you or not, just because you may not click as a couple doesn't mean you hate one another as long as you accept it if they don't feel the same about you or any other way around.
2. If you meet anyone you don't know, make sure you with someone you do know till you get to know and 3.If ever you can feel if you can trust, if you face problems outside the group, either get to know other members on the group or leave, if it turns out you don't like one another  don't speak to one another certainly don't show it to people on the group whatever you do and don't.
4. However' if it turns out you have tried to mix with someone and it hasn't worked out and you have concerns they may be a danger to the group let know if you can provide proof if you have faced problems with them and we will block and remove them.
5. Like we said in the rules do not pm or and friend request Admins or members without permission unless you know them, been pming or and added as a friend already and no socializing or trying to get with an Admin as 2 Admins are a couple which is the only Admins me and Harry. 
6. If you wish to travel with someone on the group we can look online for you, etc but you will need to sign up, deal with money, etc and you will need face to face support if you need support, if you don't know the person we would advise to take someone with you do know with you.
7. By all means, post pictures on the group if you go away with someone on the group or meet up with someone, etc.
8. We would advise you not to give someone your phone numbers, home addresses, etc at least 6 to 12 months after you have started talking to them, in fact, we would advise not to start meeting up and sending each other or and  someone gift, etc at least yet again 6 months after you have first spoken to them but this advises not telling you what to do,
9. Like we are sorry we can't promise that promise you met someone or you do that will be a success but we have you do and we hope it is a success but all the same if things don't turn out how you hope, however long or short it has been if you have a need to report the person you have been seeing please do of proof what and why if you have a concern they may be a danger of others on the group. We know this is not easy to know, I have been there myself before please if you can end things with someone if you have concerns they are a danger before they are for your safety and make us aware then with proof if by any reason you can't provide proof if you concerned this person is dangerous we will still block and remove them as long as you tell us who just to be on the safe side.

You might not want to do this or and may find it hard to. Just let you I have written safety tips and advise on the website link.
If people want to travel and meet people we will look up information, sites etc online.

What we can't do and what we are not trained to do is book jouries, deal with money, sign up to things for you, if you need support for that it will have to be face to face support but we can find information, site, etc as long as you tell us where you want to travel, where from, how etc.

Wednesday, 22 May 2019

Disabled Finding friendship, Relationships Or And Emotional Support.





If you're looking to make friends or and find a partner, this your chance to get to know one another, we can't promise you can achieve what you want to but that will be down to you and the members cause it's not our rights to choose who you mix with.


As emotional support goes we are here to support issues like relationship breakups, deaths of people you know and other emotional issues but we are only a very small team and only trained by our own and also if needs be we will look for services etc by you online who are more trained than we are, I will let you know when I have edited the purpose and rules please read and follow them when I say I have done thanks from Sara creator.
Now as we are only allowed to ask 3 questions when people request so this means this won't find in, if wish to invite people involved in lives such as parents, carers, families, friends, partner, social workers, support workers, professional, etc, that;s fine, if they accept they need to let us and the members know or you do that they are involved in the field of disabilities etc




We have set this group for with disabilities, or any other problems who face and have faced emotional issues their lives, such as relationships breakups and other issues. I and Harry are not counselors but I have faced Mental abuse, a mental break down and like most people, we have faced other emotional issues our lives but not everything, which is where us looking online for counseling or and emotional support services where's near to you. Bear in mind there's only 2 of us in Admin, which all means ask us to pm, talk on the group but also we would be most grateful if you could help one another. You are more than welcome invite someone to support you on this group if you need to like a parent, family, member, friend, partner, social worker, support worker, profession, etc if you wish to. If you know people who connect to the disability field etc who could well learn from this group such as parents, families, carers, friends, partners, social workers, support workers, professional etc in any level of learning and training even those who are qualified please free to ask them but only ask if they say yes. Please read the purpose and rules on our website thank you.
Post, chat, etc about anything to do with disability issues. For eg, quotes, poetry, creative writing, creative arts, crafts; help one another one on the group, etc,


There two reasons for this, one is that there are only 2 admins in tow and two we are giving you a list of contacts of services, people, etc who are more trained and may be able to help you quicker than we can.

https://www.time-to-change.org.uk/what-are-mental-health-problems/mental-health-help-you/other-useful-organisations
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/drugs-and-treatments/talking-therapy-and-counselling/how-to-find-a-therapist/#.XMxdqvlKjBU
https://www.mind.org.uk/?gclid=CjwKCAjwza_mBRBTEiwASDWVvk-vRgolQSAkQbuamyrxvMOSA3JtfhSE7sOx0DBnM6wLIJI93ZN5FRoCHZ8QAvD_BwE
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/#.XMxek_lKjBU


1. No passing on what's said in the group to people out of the group.
2, No prod.
3 No bullying, no abuse, no hate crime.
4. No, buying and selling.
5. Please ask a member or an Admin's permission if you wish to pm or and friend request unless you know, you pm or and added as a friend to them already.
6. Do bear in mind admins run other groups and have other lives so please help one another if needs be and follow the purpose and safety rules.
7. No asking anyone on the group for money but donating to charities are okay.
8. Do you have disabilities or other and all problems?
9. Will you follow the purpose and safety rules of this group?
10. No stigma or discrimination, this group is for people who face disabilities, mental health, emotional issues, health people or and all problems.
12. Feel free to invite people who this group benefits but don't add without asking them or if they say no.
13. No pming or and friend requesting without permission if you don't know people if you're not added as a friend or and pming them already.
14. This is a friendship or and relationships group accept and respect what people want, their choices as well as yours.
15. No socializing with the Admins unless you know us already but do remember me and Harry a couple and do not make any Admins we have friends or more, Admins are here to work on the group, safeguard the group it sort problems out you may face with members or and the group.
16. Any problems you may face, please on our groups feel free to report to us but provide us with proof of who it is, what's happen and where, the reason for this is because of people in the past have reported people without proof to find we have by mistake blocked and remove people who have not done anything wrong, which we don't want to do in the future.

ADVISE AND SAFETY TIPS.
1. Get know people on the group at least 6 to 12 months before you start to get involved, this may give you time to see if you like someone than just a friend or not and see if they feel the same way about you or not, just because you may not click as a couple doesn't mean you hate one another as long as you accept it if they don't feel the same about you or any other way around.
2. If you meet anyone you don't know, make sure you with someone you do know till you get to know and 3.If ever you can feel if you can trust, if you face problems outside the group, either get to know other members on the group or leave, if it turns out you don't like one another  don't speak to one another certainly don't show it to people on the group whatever you do and don't.
4. However' if it turns out you have tried to mix with someone and it hasn't worked out and you have concerns they may be a danger to the group let know if you can provide proof if you have faced problems with them and we will block and remove them.
5. Like we said in the rules do not pm or and friend request Admins or members without permission unless you know them, been pming or and added as a friend already and no socializing or trying to get with an Admin as 2 Admins are a couple which is the only Admins me and Harry. 
6. If you wish to travel with someone on the group we can look online for you, etc but you will need to sign up, deal with money, etc and you will need face to face support if you need support, if you don't know the person we would advise to take someone with you do know with you.
7. By all means, post pictures on the group if you go away with someone on the group or meet up with someone, etc.
8. We would advise you not to give someone your phone numbers, home addresses, etc at least 6 to 12 months after you have started talking to them, in fact, we would advise not to start meeting up and sending each other or and  someone gift, etc at least yet again 6 months after you have first spoken to them but this advises not telling you what to do,

9. Like we are sorry we can't promise that promise you met someone or you do that will be a success but we have you do and we hope it is a success but all the same if things don't turn out how you hope, however long or short it has been if you have a need to report the person you have been seeing please do of proof what and why if you have a concern they may be a danger of others on the group. We know this is not easy to know, I have been there myself before please if you can end things with someone if you have concerns they are a danger before they are for your safety and make us aware then with proof if by any reason you can't provide proof if you concerned this person is dangerous we will still block and remove them as long as you tell us who just to be on the safe side.
You might not want to do this or and may find it hard to. Just let you I have written safety tips and advise on the website link.
If people want to travel and meet people we will look up information, sites etc online.
What we can't do and what we are not trained to do is book jouries, deal with money, sign up to things for you, if you need support for that it will have to be face to face support but we can find information, site, etc as long as you tell us where you want to travel, where from, how etc.

Monday, 20 May 2019

DISABILITY ADULTS CHAT GROUP WORLDWIDE

We are so sorry for the slight change as we found ourselves last night blocking and removing someone off one of the social groups to find she's still in school which why it's called DISABILITY ADULTS CHAT GROUP WORLDWIDE
Hi, all welcome to This group is a group of choices and feelings meaning you can choose whether you want to make friends have a relationship or and both but you must respect and accept the choices and feelings of the members on the group. No socializing with us the admins we are here to safeguard group and sort out problems. If you don't know people or and you're not added as a friend or pming them already don't do so without asking their permission first and don't pm or friend request admin without their permission unless you're reporting a member or and you face any other problems with this group.


Life is what you make it but it's not always the case cause not everyone wants the same in life, it would be a boring world if it was so pleasing respect and accept if things don't go your way, we can't promise to complete your dream of whatever you may want, that's down to you and the members you come across with on neither you or us can force them to come into your life if they don't want so please feel free to report it to us if you do get anyone trying to force you into anything don't want with proof name meaning who, what happened and where because we don't want to block and remove the wrong person. This is not a dating group, it's a group of having your own choice and feelings bit respecting what others do and don't want as well and how they feel so if feelings aren't same no one can make it be.

However, this group is set up by myself and Harry, who have been couple ourselves just over a month ago but despite that, we know how hard it is as disabled people ourselves to make friends with people let alone have relationships, which why we have set up this group.


Life is what you make it but it's not always the case cause not everyone wants the same in life, it would be a boring world if it was so pleasing respect and accept if things don't go your way, we can't promise to complete your dream of whatever you may want, that's down to you and the members you come across with on neither you or us can force them to come into your life if they don't want so please feel free to report it to us if you do get anyone trying to force you into anything don't want with proof name meaning who, what happened and where because we don't want to block and remove the wrong person. This is not a dating group, it's a group of having your own choice and feelings bit respecting what others do and don't want as well and how they feel so if feelings aren't same no one can make it be.

However, this group is set up by myself and Harry, who have been couple ourselves just over a month ago but despite that, we know how hard it is as disabled people ourselves to make friends with people let alone have relationships, which why we have set up this group.




You have your own choices but so do the other members, no making someone more than friends if they don't want to be.
Never know you may meet a friend that makes the turn into a partner, which is how myself and Harry started.
No pming or and friend requesting anyone without their permission if you don't know them, or and if you haven't pmed or and friend request before unless your added as a friend or and pming them already that includes Admins too unless reporting a problem with a member or the group.
There only 3 Admins, we may or may not get more but no socializing with me, Harry or Alistair or any admins you may come across in the further, we are here just to safeguard the group and sort out problems you may face with other members.
In the past we have had members reporting members without proof, please provide proof because we don't want to block and remove members who haven't done anything wrong. Of Who, what happened where.
Other than that enjoy the group, feel free to post chat about your hobbies, interests etc, interduce yourself, chat to the members and get to know them and respect and accept their choices and feelings and they should respect and accept yours, keep it safe and clean, no dirty talk or post, swearing, porn, etc talk or post.

Just to say socializing making friends etc between those of you who face disabilities etc but do remember to ask people's permission if you wish to pm or and friend with anymore, whether it's a member with disabilities, people who connected to the lives of disabilities parents, etc or admin.

Please feel free to post videos, pictures, etc on disabilities, etc issues; social issues like making, friends, relationships, arts, crafts, hobbies, interests, careers,etc but please read the rules cause as we said not everyone is going to feel and want the same in life as one another.

If anyone wants to post but doesn't know how to from your IT device please feel free to let me or and Harry know. Just tell us whether you have for example a phone, iPad, pc, etc and name of the device and we will do our best to look online to see if there's a way you can post from your device to facebook groups, from the Sara Creator of the group.

Do not socialize with people who are or people who are say carers, patents, families, social workers, support workers, professionals, they here to talk about what they face in their work etc..Even people with disabilities etc themselves ask them on the group first, do not pm, friends request or and socialize without asking 1st otherwise just talk on the group. Please if they say no, do not kick off and take it out on others on the group, if you don't like what you see or and here on the group then leave.

In terms of friendship, relationships, etc now everyone is going to feel the same way so not force them to do what they don't want to do because you do. You can either leave the group or be patience as more people will join but we promise things will go own way cause everyone is different. We are not a dating match making group that's between you and the people you socialize to decide on that 1 bit as I said, not all people will want the same as you.
If face anyone being forceful to you in what you don't want, please feel free to report it to either me or and Harry. Please provide of who it is, what and whereas we don't want to block and remove people who haven't done wrong. If we have the proof we will see that the person who has done wrong is blocked off the group, thank you from Sara creator.


The same normal rule of ours feel free to invite people our groups but don't add them if you haven't asked then or if they say they don't want to join. Only add them if you have asked and they have said they would like to join.

Facebook has now come with an invite system, by all means, use it to invite people you know that you would like to join this our groups but please accept that there may be times that people you may invite may not want to join as you may hope.

No, we don't match make people together, because we don't choose who people mix with but feel free to interduce yourself to people, put on a selfie and see if people reply. The reason why we call our groups friendship and or love is because so friendships may turn into more but we can't promise. However, 's there are safety rules on our pinned post saying to not pm or and friend requesting people without asking them first unless you know them, or you have been pming them or and you added as a friend to them already. The idea is to make your own choices of who you want to mix with friends, more and or both but also remember they have their own choices as well. Therefore another rule we have is not to make someone be more than friends if they don't want to be, which gives members a right to report another member with proof if someone tries to make want or do what they don't want. Like being more than friends for example if they don't want or and if they are pming or and friend requesting them either without permission or and if they don't want them to, which is your rights too.
Safety rules.

1. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)

2. No bullying or hate crime, if you face bullying and hate crime please feel to report it us and we will see that an Admin who know how to report the person to facebook does that as long as you have proof and whatever happens that person will be removed and blocked from our groups.

3. No out seen or sexual post.

4. No advertising product.

5. No talk of drugs unless it’s a certain awareness of disabilities and health problems.

6. No porn.

7. No swearing

8. If by any chance you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.
9. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to Facebook if you feel there's a need to do that.
10. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know thank you.

11. Please do not join our groups on more than just two profile, it gets confusing for us, thank
12. No blocking any Admin or else you will find yourself blocked.
  1. New rule everyone not really new more we forgot to put this in the rules. Feel free to post your hobbies, interests, talents, etc but no buying and selling on our groups. If you wish to buy or and sell, there are buying and selling groups on the FB, thank you from Sara head admin.
A reminder of the 3 questions, please answer if you haven't done so already unless you are on our other groups, either you know me, Harry or and Alistair or and other people on the group or and our groups.
  1. Have you got disabilities or and other problems etc, if so what?
  2. Are you looking for friendship, partner or both?
  3. Will follow the safety rules?
  4. Please you know who you may want to invite to the group ask them directly not through the FB and they must request themselves if they want to join and answer the questions themselves, they must have disabilities or and other problems wanting to make friends or and partner and follow the safety rules thank you.
ADVISE AND SAFETY TIPS.
1. Get know people on the group at least 6 to 12 months before you start to get involved, this may give you time to see if you like someone than just a friend or not and see if they feel the same way about you or not, just because you may not click as a couple doesn't mean you hate one another as long as you accept it if they don't feel the same about you or any other way around.
2. If you meet anyone you don't know, make sure you with someone you do know till you get to know and 3.If ever you can feel if you can trust, if you face problems outside the group, either get to know other members on the group or leave, if it turns out you don't like one another  don't speak to one another certainly don't show it to people on the group whatever you do and don't.
4. However' if it turns out you have tried to mix with someone and it hasn't worked out and you have concerns they may be a danger to the group let know if you can provide proof if you have faced problems with them and we will block and remove them.
5. Like we said in the rules do not pm or and friend request Admins or members without permission unless you know them, been pming or and added as a friend already and no socializing or trying to get with an Admin as 2 Admins are a couple which is the only Admins me and Harry. 
6. If you wish to travel with someone on the group we can look online for you, etc but you will need to sign up, deal with money, etc and you will need face to face support if you need support, if you don't know the person we would advise to take someone with you do know with you.
7. By all means, post pictures on the group if you go away with someone on the group or meet up with someone, etc.
8. We would advise you not to give someone your phone numbers, home addresses, etc at least 6 to 12 months after you have started talking to them, in fact, we would advise not to start meeting up and sending each other or and  someone gift, etc at least yet again 6 months after you have first spoken to them but this advises not telling you what to do,
9. Like we are sorry we can't promise that promise you met someone or you do that will be a success but we have you do and we hope it is a success but all the same if things don't turn out how you hope, however long or short it has been if you have a need to report the person you have been seeing please do of proof what and why if you have a concern they may be a danger of others on the group. We know this is not easy to know, I have been there myself before please if you can end things with someone if you have concerns they are a danger before they are for your safety and make us aware then with proof if by any reason you can't provide proof if you concerned this person is dangerous we will still block and remove them as long as you tell us who just to be on the safe side.
You might not want to do this or and may find it hard to. Just let you I have written safety tips and advise on the website link.
If people want to travel and meet people we will look up information, sites etc online.
What we can't do and what we are not trained to do is book jouries, deal with money, sign up to things for you, if you need support for that it will have to be face to face support but we can find information, site, etc as long as you tell us where you want to travel, where from, how etc.