Saturday 12 October 2019

What is Dyspraxia?

Dyspraxia is a hard disability and mental problem to explain and understand. Many people have already lived
with Dyspraxia our lives being misunderstood and being told that we are a danger to society. The world understands that the world can know everything right away. No one is blaming anyone but if Dyspraxia was understood many years, we may have had the right support and may not have been classed health hazards and useless people. This disability has caused us to be made to feel guilty for things we can't help and also caused us to be hated by the world. We understand it's understandable in one way for the health and safety of others but not the fault on the purpose of the people who have disabilities. The awareness is good but all very well to raise when there's not the money in the world to support it. One thing is raising understanding of Dyspraxia so we can be at least understood for what our disability is about.
Dyspraxia is when people are unaware of the world around them. It's too easy to not look where your going, bang into things and people around you. People with Dyspraxia can find physical and mental skills hard. Dyspraxia is mostly misunderstood has been a danger to society, which you are but with the right support you can get by in life.
 The reason for Dyspraxia being misunderstood is because it's a hidden disability. Yet with Dyspraxia being a lot to do with the body and brain, even though it's hidden because people can walk and talk it's more major than those disabilities who need 24-hour care in everything. The advantage is that people with Dyspraxia have the ability though to ask for help if we need it. There's just a wide circle of skills we find hard. The cause of being misunderstood is the fact we can walk and talk so people think we can manage our lives the same as them. Dyspraxia is a Motor skill and coordination disability but it is also can be a reading and writing disability not much different to dyslexia.


For eg; a baby may find it hard to roll over, take longer to stand up and balance, walking, climbing, slower to talk and be understood.

Exercise may be harder to access, some people may only manage swimming, exercise or and even horse riding. Some people may not manage to ride a real bike. Some people may find it hard to hop, jump, run fast and even skip. Some people may find it hard to throw and catch a ball. Some people may find it hard to stand for a long time.

 Children may be slower to walk up and down stairs safely without support. There are some stairs even adults and teenagers may not be able to manage without support. Some stairs can be harder for some people to manage than others. Some people find it hard to dress, tie shoelaces and etc.

 For most of us, it can affect our lives with not being able to drive a car and not being able to have children because of carrying and lifting. As time goes on support get's better in some ways but not in others. On the other hands with the cuts, the government is making it's hard to say what the future is.

Other examples
  • Doing jigsaws
  • Gripping pencils
  • Playing games
  • Mixing with people
  • communicating 
  • Reading
  • Writing
  • Emotional problems
  • Poor short-term memory
  • Using a knife and fork
  • Carrying hot drinks in the left hand or and you may be only able to carry one hot drink at a time.
  • Personnel care for eg; cleaning teeth, washing hair, shaving, cutting toenails and etc.
  • Emptying the hoover and putting it back together again.
  • Finding it hard to understand people and make friends.
  • Poor vision
  • Sensitive to light
  • Sensitive to nose
  • Sensitive to touch
  • Sensitive to taste
  • Lack of awareness of the body-positive, space and spatial relationships.
  • Hard to take in information.
  • Hard to keep tidy.
  • Cooking for eg; carrying heavy joints out of the oven, chopping up and straining veg.
  • Hard to learn sounds, movements, and proofreading.
  • Hard to concentrate on too many things at once.
  • Slow to do a job and finish it.
  • Daydream be in a world of our own.
  • Find hard to listen to people in groups and take in what they say.
  • Finding it hard to understand people and be understood by them. 
  •  Change can take a while to get used to whether it's good or bad.
  • Good and bad days for eg; something we managed great yesterday we are coping really bad today.
  • Some skills we just never manage but others we manage for life.
  • We may get frustrated and angry easy.
  • We just might give up if people give up on us too easily.
  • We may be stressed and anxious easy.
  • We may feel low in our self-esteem. 
  • We may get upset easy.
Other awareness of the disability.
Some people with Dyspraxia have flat feet but I also have wide feet. I have really bad problems getting shoes to fit me. Some people even find it hard to type and grip the mouse on a computer. My problem can be I type so fast I don't notice my spelling mistakes and the words I have missed out of sentences. Some people find it hard to plan things. Some of us have poor relocating cannot look quickly and effectively from one object to another, looking from the television to the magazine.

Although there seems to be a lot of things that we find hard, there are some things that get better through our lives. I still remember as a child finding it hard for a lot of years cutting meat up with a knife and fork. In some cases, if someone is on some medications the side effects can make life even harder for them. If you have a lot of problems with hands, some medications can make them worse, which makes some people shake.  Not everyone finds the same things hard and not everyone finds the same things easy. I even find some things I just have good days and bad. Strangely in some things, there are some weaknesses that can turn into confidences because with this being a lifetime disability you become used to what you can and can't cope. The fact that we are keen, willing people because we find so many things hard we don't give up until we achieve what we want to. Sometimes though society gives upon us. To start with it may seem hard to believe that there are positives in Dyspraxia but it takes a long time to believe in that, your disability and most of all yourself. You can find so many things hard yet it's to believe the bad as well as the good because you don't appear to strangers to have disabilities.
    Our lives aren't all black and white there are positives about us yet some are the things we do find hard.

    • Some things that we may see different from other people can be right.
    • We find it easy to get along with people if they understand us and we understand them.
    • People need to give themselves time and time to get to know one another.
    • We can be carrying people who need support as much or if not more than us.
    • We have powerful and creative imagination in our daydreams.
    • We are very keen learners despite finding learning hard, nothing stops us.
    • We have good long-term memories.
    • We can create for eg; creative writing art painting and drawing. 
    The causes of Dyspraxia.
      As far as I know, Dyspraxia is caused by a lack of orgxen to the brain at birth or when a baby is born too early. I think this can be linked to epilepsy or and a stroke. I think are many other causes of Dyspraxia.

      Different forms of Dyspraxia.

      It sounds as if the world has a lot to learn about Dyspraxia, which is hardly surprising as it's a hard disability to understand and explain. Just because I am Dyspraxia, doesn't mean I know everything about it. In my respects, the world knows more than me. What I do know is how it has affected my life. I am glad to say now it has opened up now. There may have been thousands of children in my school, I would have been aware but I doubt it. I know what it's like to feel so alone even though you are more than likely not. Bullying never seems to stop because you look and or seem different from other children. Even by adults your so misunderstood because quite rightly even adult expects to see a normal child, whatever normal is at the end of the day. Putting yourself in the shoes of parents, life can be a jigsaw puzzle for them when their child is slow at learning or and they know what their disabilities and health problems are.

      Movements are to do with Motor skills, Co-ordination and balance. For eg; opening a tin with a can opener.
      Language is speech how we sound, make ourselves understood and misunderstood mostly the cases are.
      Perception is Understanding and or misunderstanding others, messages, the world around us and etc.
      It's more likely possible to have all of those forms of Dyspraxia as I have found all those things hard throughout my life. Having said that when you have a good many other disabilities it can be hard to say what causes what. For eg; I could either Asperger Syndrome or and ADHD, Dyslexia, Epilepsy as well as Dyspraxia. could have one form of Dyspraxia, two or all three. I know what I read about Dyspraxia sounds like me.

      Sometimes when I am speaking I find it hard to swallow when I speak therefore no one understands me. I have always had problems with my tongue, teeth, and lips which goes very dry as skin becomes loose. Even though I feed myself, I'm still a very messy eater. As a very small child I found very hard grip a knife and fork I think food used to go everywhere other than my mouth over the floor everywhere, although I don't see how I've always loved my food too much and ate too much.

      Some words I may say may not come out correct but may not be far off, otherwise, I'm well misunderstood. Sometimes I may talk too quiet in case I don't sound like how I want to sound like. Yet when I am sure of myself it works opposite I can be too loud.  

      Some famous people with Dyspraxia.

      Daniel Radcliffe plays Harry Potter, David Bailey who takes pictures, Florence Welch, Hannah McDonnell actor, Helen Burns character out of Jane Eyre, Samuel Taylor Coleridge poet, CK Chester, Ern est Hemingway, Jack Kerouac, and George Orwell wrote.

      Dyspraxia needs to be taken seriously.

      My name is Sara Jane Gorman, I used to work for a Public Advocacy service called Our Shout Wolverhampton supported by Royal Wolverhampton Mencap. Now I work for the University Of Wolverhampton as a Vist Lecture educating and training Student Learning Disability nurses around Learning Disability and Mental Health. For a very short time, I shared a very small business well Enterprise with someone with learning disability from Mencap, we were called Access All Areas Now and we were Learning Disability Awareness trainers and I achieved my level 1 and 2 Mentoring qualification from January 2018 to June 2018, received my certificates in 2019.

      I was born in 1969, with a lack of oxygen to the brain, therefore, I was a child of the 70s, a teenager of the 80s and a very young adult of the 90s and I'm now 50 yrs of age. Very little was known so there was very little support or none at all. Therefore there was no diagnose of what my problems were and to be for the rest of my life but as years went on there started to be plenty of research. Both I and my family knew the difficulties I faced. My family mainly watched films, read books etc to find certain difficulties I faced were named but not 100 percent sure, which is why whatever you face it's important but not always possible to get diagnosed as early in life as possible. As I have said in so many words I have never been diagnosed because my problems were unknown in the early stages of my life which makes me want the opposite for others today and in the future.

      These problems I face Autism, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, and Epilepsy.

      For the last seven years, I have been working for the University Of Wolverhampton, it's been a great experience still teaching and training the Student Learning Disability nurses around learning disability and mental health. I became a visiting lecturer in  January 2015.

      Dyspraxia needs to be taken more seriously, it's not an illness or disease, it's long-term condition and learning difficulty that can affect people physically and mentally but mostly physically. It's hard to see because most people with Dyspraxia can walk and talk. With the right support, people with Dyspraxia can have equal lives for other people. People Dyspraxia can have careers just with the right support and right jobs for them and the same with other parts of life really.
      However' it's important to expect anything from anybody, I can only speak from my own experience, it could well vary from person to person, not be the case for every facing the condition facing the same or all the same problems.

      I feel it's important that people with the condition get a lot of support but due to funding and that it's not always possible. However' some may need more support than others.

      My reasons are because Dyspraxia has been a huge effect on me having a  physically more so than mentally, such as trying to do up shoelaces, zips, buttons, etc. It's affected me from having children, which was very furstraighting when I was in my mid-teens to twenties etc. Babies do riggle and not excepted to wait until for example; you have put their right feet in the feet of their baby grow lol, which seems hard to explain in writing, meaning I'm not physically strong, mentally strong in some areas but not in others. 

      Thursday 3 October 2019

      Basics of learning disability, Mental health and all problems 1ST YEAR STUDENT LEARNING DISABILITY NURSES AT UNIVERSITY 2020.


      What are your answers?
      What a learning disability and or other problems?
      When can disabilities and all problems happen?
      How do disabilities or and all problems happen?
      What types of disabilities or and other problems are there?
      How do disabilities or and other problems affect lives?
      The positives of disabilities or and all problems.
      How do you support and find support for people with disabilities or and all problems?
      About communication.
      About accessibly/ accessible information, easy read, diversity, etc.

      Here's mind.
      Examples; epilepsy, autism, anxiety, depression, ADHD, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, etc.
      Before, during after birth.
      Neglect
      Mother unwell during pregnancy
      The person themselves may have a bad fall. 
      Home, education, employment, health, social lives, etc.
      Talents, being creative in education and work.
      sign language for the deaf, easy read clear pictures, large print writing.
      Wheelchairs, walking frames, ramps, etc, grippers, more space for parking, etc such as footpaths, etc.
      How people with disabilities, mental health other problems copying in lockdown.
      Information on the flu jab and coronavirus vaccine for people with disabilities, mental health, and all problems.  

      https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/disability/
      https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/learning-disabilities/a-to-z/l/learning-disabilities
      https://www.theguardian.com/inequality/2017/nov/15/whats-life-really-like-for-disabled-peopld-disability-diaries-reveal-all
      https://www.helpguide.org/articles/autism-learning-disabilities/learning-disabilities-and-disorders.htm
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disability
      https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/disability-facts-and-figures/disability-facts-and-figures
      https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/understanding-equality-act-information-disabled-students
      https://www.mencap.org.uk/learning-disability-explained/what-learning-disability
      https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/law-and-courts/discrimination/protected-characteristics/what-counts-as-disability/