Thursday 20 August 2020

Autism poems

 

Autism is speaking.

What is everyone thinking?

Are we that scarily?

We do not mean to be, but we can be characters of imagination.

It is hard to know if we are more worried about us than what we think of you.

 Guessing the unknown is the hardest but interesting part.

If we are not real, which we are but no harm in guessing what and who we could be in our character but that would not be the real us.

Expressing how we feel is not easy for us, which is why we communicate in facial expressions, we know is hard to know what we are thinking but surely you can tell by our expressions whether we are happy or sad.

It is hard to know we are thinking but the truth we are worried about what you are thinking, which is why may not say anything if we do not know you.  

 

 

I am real.

I am real and I am here.

Can you see me?

I am not a figure of your imagination.

Do I look strange?

Sorry, I do not mean to appear as I seem.

I am Autistic.

When I know someone, and something is new I just find it hard to know how to react to anything unexcepted to me.


  

  

Sorry if I stare.

Sorry if I seem to stare as I do not realize I am.

I ask myself every day what you all are thinking mainly if we see others for the first time and we do not one another.

Guess it can be strange even if we do know one another.

I wonder if you think as me as if I am some type of fleek?

I do not mean to be, tell me what you are thinking?

It is so easy to be misunderstood someone I am not, well someone who I do not me to be because I am really me. 


I am not someone you dreamt.

Maybe I am concerned too much what people are thinking, I can only guess not read minds.

Sometimes I guess I am right, sometimes I guess I am wrong, sometimes I guess I will never know.

Unless someone says.

Everyone’s reaction is likely to be different because we are all human, which makes us interesting not boring otherwise we would all the same.

That is fine but by some, I guess I will be misunderstood, I am not likely to please everyone. 


Monday 17 August 2020

DISABILTIES & ALL PROBLEMS AND AWARENESS EVERY DAY

 Our team


Sara Jane Gorman your creator

Harry Cawood your Head Admin

Alistair Wilkinson

Jennifer Gilbert Harvey

James Lakeman

Barry John Matthews

This group is an awareness, support, mentor, and advocacy group that covers all walks of life, the group is an all in one for people with learning disabilities

the elderly

Learning difficulties

special needs Autism, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, more and all

long term conditions

health problems

mental health

learning disabilities

Stroke

Cancer

debates

Aurrightus

More and all

Everyone needs to be answering the 3 questions before we decide whether or not we accept them on the group, which one of our safeguarding issues for everyone's safety. It's fine to invite people to this group you know if you think this group will benefit them. First of all, it's their choice if they want to join or not. Unless they are going to give you answers to the 3 questions do not invite them by the FB. Invite them to direct whether it's by pm, email, face, etc so they have to say whether they choose to join or not. If they wish to join give them the link of this group for them to request themselves and answer the questions.


There is no age limit in adults in this group but for safety, adults should be on behalf of a child's safety. Meaning if you children, family members, etc with disabilities, etc it is fine to be on the group on behalf of them or if you have son, daughter as an adult, or adults.

They themselves can join and be on the group from 16 as long as you are on there when they are on but with or without you 18 onwards. If we are aware, if we have any concerns about a young vulnerable people's safety and they are in your care we will let you know.

The reason why this concerns me is that on my old groups I have come across profiles set up from under 16s who were still school and found myself blocking them for their own safety but lucky it hasn't happened for a long time.
However' if you wish to create a profile in your name and your child's or family member with the parent's permission that's fine as long as the child always with an adult who is a parent to them or family or someone who is an adult, who knows them as much as their parents or family members do and they kept an eye every move by which adult is with them. However' we respect it if you don't want to do this but we have had cases where children set up their own profiles etc, which as I said was a long time ago. I understand it's not easy to keep an eye every move etc and I know this is something that is probably very rare but does your best to keep an eye on these things.

The way they will benefit this group is in the questions we ask if they have disabilities, special needs, all other problems, etc.

If they are parents, carer family member, friend, partner, support worker, social worker, profession, etc. meaning anyone involved in the lives of disabilities and other problems.

Plus they need to follow our rules to keep everyone safe. Thank you from Sara creator.

The group all for people who are involved with the lives of the people who face all sorts of problems. People like parents, carers families, support, workers, social workers, professionals, etc in all levels of studying, training, trained, etc.

This is an all in one disability, all problems, mental support group, everyone's reasons are similar if not the same. One of the reasons I set this group up is that I was born with disabilities and other problems nearly fifty - one year ago After my Mum had me back then there was no awareness, support, etc for those with babies and children, etc with disabilities, all ages, etc.

These days you don't need to be alone, we understand the FB, not all that people probably know one another but on this group even though most likely is still the case, everyone has joined for similar if not the same reasons whether you have disabilities, etc, your a parent of those who face these problems, carer, family member, social worker, support worker, professional or any other sort of work, study, etc in this field.

Please bear in mind there is a coronavirus lockdown, if anyone needs any support services etc maybe slow etc than they were before the lockdown we will do our best help. Most of of us have disabilities etc ourselves and Alistair is a paramedic and carer but we all have different skills and we can be very busy, that doesn't mean won't help when we can which is why those of you who are professionals, etc we would be grateful for you helping those who are facing disabilities, etc if they ask. However' so many people on the FB don't know one another, everyone has a choice so if you need to pm or and friend request people you don't for any reason ask their permission for first so they have a say whether they allow to or not, Do not contact them without permission unless you know them, added as a friend to them or and pming them already if they don't mind you doing so. We don't want to complain of our members having unexcepted unknown and unaware contacts off people they don't know.

whether it's socially or needing help advice etc or both off others.

If you need to contact admin, mainly if you don't one another as well please ask on the group. If there's a problem you don't need to say what it is on the group, just say I need to talk to an admin. also provide proof of the problem so we our job and if it's a person or people you may face a problem with this group if we need to block and remove anyone, we need to know we are blocking and removing those in the wrong not in the right.

At the end of the month we are closing 2 of our groups down, don't worry about this one. I will be making updates to this group month adding more on to it. One is a friendship group and another group similar to this one and some people from there may join us on here. Socializing is allowed but is mindful of who people are, people with disabilities, etc to socialize with people with disabilities. People who are professional, carers, etc are here to learn, give and even get support, etc for those they support to look after, etc, if not by us but others the same situation as them or maybe websites, information, services, etc but we are here to do our best too.

Topics On This Group.

1. Health – Anything to do with the health of people with disabilities and health problems.

2. Housing – Accessible housing for disabled people, disability aids, disabled access and etc in the home.

3. Careers – Education and Employment for Disabled People.

4. Talent – Hobbies, interests, arts, craft and etc which can either be in the home, socially, or and in a career.

5. Social issues – Friendship, dating, going places, counseling, emotional support and etc.

6. Disabled Access – For e.g; wheelchairs, car parks, disabled aids, getting around on transport out and +, etc.

7. Public Advocacy – Empowering and supporting people with disabilities and health problems to speak for their rights. For eg; (Person Centred Planning.)

8. Private Advocacy is mostly legal and illegal Advocacy such as hate crime, discriminating, benefit cuts, fit for work, not fit for work and etc.

9. (‘ Learning Disability and Mental Health Awareness’) - people with disabilities and health problems training and educating those people without disabilities and health problems who are interested in working in the field of learning disability and health problems.

Helpline but plus bear they may be hard to contact due to the lockdown or just a bit slow.

http://www.stophateuk.org/ 0800 138 1625

WWW.crimestoppers-uk.org 0800 555 111

Learning Disability Hate Crime Stop Crime Helpline 0800 802 1155

http://www.mind.org.uk/ 0300 123 3393 email info@mind.org.uk

Samaritans WWW.sameritans.org 08457 90 90 90

Elder Abuse WWW. ageuk.org.uk 0808 808 81141

Victim Support WWW,victimsupport.org.uk 08045 3030 900

NHS medial help non - emergency 111 WWW.nhs.uk

NSPCC Helpline WWW.nspcc.org.uk 0808 800 5000

Citizens Advice 0844 111 444 from landline 0300 330 06550 from mobile and WWW.adviceguide.org.uk

Community legal advice 0845 345 4345 WWW.justice.org.uk

Emergency 999

https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-services

http://inspiritedminds.org.uk/

https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-emergency-if-youre-crisis-or-despair

https://www.facebook.com/groups/AnxietyandDepressionThebigtalk/

https://www.rethink.org/diagnosis-treatment/treatment-and-support/crisis-teams

If you need support to find important contacts that aren't this list, please feel to pm us but if we don't reply quick enough for you there are groups you could join not much different to ours.

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https://sararevealed.blogspot.com/2019/12/living-with-disabilities-or-and-all.htmlSafety rules.

1. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)

2. No bullying or hate crime, if you face bullying and hate crime please feel to report it us and we will see that an Admin who know how to report the person to Facebook does that as long as you have proof and whatever happens that person will be removed and blocked from our groups.

3. No out seen or sexual post.

4. No advertising product.

5. No talk of drugs unless it’s a certain awareness of disabilities and health problems.

6. No porn.

7. No swearing

8. If by any chance you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.

9. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to Facebook if you feel there's a need to do that.

10. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know thank you.

11. Please do not join our groups on more than just two profile, it gets confusing for us, thank you.

12. NO GIVING PERSONAL DETAILS SUCH AS ADDRESSES, EMAIL ADDRESSES. PHONE NUMBERS ETC, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY TO SOMEONE IF YOU PM SOMEONE. DON'T WRITE TO YOURS OR THEIR PERSONAL DETAILS ON THE GROUP OR GIVE THEM TO ANOTHER PERSON WITHOUT A PERON'S PERMISSION IF THEY REPORT YOU WITH PROOF, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED AND REMOVED OFF THE GROUP, MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOUR PASSWORDS.

13, Do not judge anyone.

14. No discrimination

15. No Sigma

16. Remember this group is to support people with disabilities or and or all problems to access all topics of life so socializing is one of them so always ask who people are and why they have joined the group because this group is also for people in the lives of disabilities, or and all problems such as parents, carers, families, friends, partners, social workers, support workers, professionals, etc, if you fit into these catering always let people know so people don't think your someone your not. For eg; only people with disabilities socialize with people disabilities.

17. No blocking Admin or member.

18. No getting involved with Admins personally, if anyone is it must be off the group and team.

19, If you face problems with anyone on this group, on the group or anywhere else, please provide us proof before blocking them so we don't block and remove people who haven't done wrong.

20. Not everyone knows people on the FB so if you feel a need to pm, someone, whether it's an Admin or a member ask them first unless you know them and spoke to them before, etc or you are already added to freind to or and to them before. No friends request either without someone's permission, we don't want reports of unexcepted PMS or and friends to request but please feel free to report them if you face them and remember to provide proof so we block and remove the person in the wrong, not in the right.


 If wish to invite people who you know to this group. For one only invite they face disabilities or and other problems or and they involved in the lives of those who face disabilities or and other problems.

Do not invite them by the FB unless you know or and they have given you the answers to the 3 questions on the request, otherwise invite them by pm, email, face to face, etc in which case give the link of our group if they wish to join and they can respect and answer the questions themselves.

However, they are on either our groups what we have now or have been in the past.

if any of us recognize their name they won't need to answer the questions or look at their profile unless there have been any problems we have faced with them in the past which therefore they won't be accepted if myself or any of my admins on my team who are with us now are aware. Thank you from Sara Creator.



21. No request to the groups on more than 1 profile, more than 1 profile is confusing for the Admins.

22. No buying and selling anything to anyone on the group but donating anything to charities etc is fine. One rule we have forgotten and I guess a lot of you wouldn't do this but it can be easily done for some people just a bit of advice.

23. Not meaning to sound harsh just a small like hick cup. Please try to remember not to post the same post twice if you can, thank you from Sara creator.

Hi, all just to say when asking someone if you can pm them or and friend request. always wait for their reply to the group first so they have a say yes or no. This whether you are wanting to friend request a member or Admin.

No giving your personal details on the groups such as phone numbers, email addresses, home addresses, etc form Sara creatorhttps://sararevealed.blogspot.com/2020/08/disability-all-problems-mental-health.html

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