Autism, Disability and Mental health awareness.

 Cans and cants.

When I was younger it seemed and felt there was nothing good about me at all, which as years went on this was not the case at all.

There were times I wondered why I was on the planet if I was no use to others or myself.

It took me years to realise the good in me because I learned very little or nothing at all in school, as if I would be a danger to everyone and myself.

It was only when I left school, I started to learn a little easier, and things moved on in positive ways from there.

Many of us, know when most people need more support than others, it is too easy to forus more so what I can’t than what they can, leaving them feeling negative about themselves, when there is not everything, they need support in.

We need to bear in mind that yes there are a good many things most people struggle with but it is not everything to a point to make them feel completely negative about themselves but there are most things they need support in.

We need to know when someone needs quite a lot of support because it is far too easy to forus on most peoples’ cant’s  we should be focusing a lot on their cans, that way we would make them feel less worthless or not worthless at all even.

 

Never judge on what you can’t see even not what you can.

 

You see someone walk.

You see someone talk.

You think they are okay, yes, they are but no they are but one or the other.

Never judge what you can and cannot see.

It should be okay for them to ask for any help without feeling embarrassed, guilty, ashamed etc but don’t poke your Norse where it is not wanted either.

We are who we are and what we are.

No matter what we struggle with, we shouldn’t have to fear of rejection off others.

We are neither different or the same to others, we are just slower than others in reactions and more, we are and we are not in different things and ways.

We may struggle with things such as making beds, screwing in lightbulbs and more but we have a lot of strengths too, different people in different ways.

Except and don’t except anything off anybody.

 

Empower more positive than negative.

 

It is hard to understand why most of us come across people who start to seem so positive  and yet so negative as time goes on.

It is hard to understand why some of us stay the same life than what others do, despite what others around us may put us through.

Where we should walk away from those who play with our minds, most of us do but the case of when and some of us walk away sooner than others.

Most don’t say sorry but in some not everyone, it is hard to say who but most just say sorry because they know they have done when so they try to cover themselves so they can try and come back in our lives again.

Easiest way of knowing may be for sure, if they have hurt us so many times but in most case, we should know sooner than we do but better late than never, it is those of us who don’t realise at all are the most concern.

Really know okay but like and love can be as much of drug as anything, therefore do not judge people who put themselves through hard situations, just be there for them in case they need your support or and to find them support on things you cannot.

For some of us we walk away really quick, others really slow, others not at all.

 

We are all different.

Not everyone is a mind player.

Not everyone is a user.

Not everyone is abuser.

Some are positive.

Some are negative.

Some are loyal while others let us down.

Life is a mixer of good and bad.

 

Autism is us.

 

We may seem strange to you.

We seem different to you what you are used to.

I guess we are, but we are not.

We may respond in ways you do and don’t except.

To what you know, what we know.

You may well laugh at us because you may not understand how we are, who we are, how we think, react, respond, why etc.

Do not take a guess at anything, don’t do anything unless, if and or, when you know.

 

 

Autism need.

Autism is not a plan; we do not choose to have Autism.

Autism needs a plan for our needs, route, impendence, support, empowerment and even confidence no one more different to anyone.

Change of route and the unexcepted without warning can cause Anxiousness.

Confidence needs building, understanding and even misunderstanding to be less misunderstanding needs improving.

Open a world of work to  good communication with others.