Getting out and about can be hard for anyone not just for people with disabilities. Due to people with didsabilities needing more support than people without, it can be hard for people with disabilities to have our rights and choices. Having said that some of us are more luckey than others. Most people can't go out unless they are in groups for eg; Circle of Friends and Mates to Dates supported by Mencap.Transport also seems to be a big deal. Most famlies, carers and etc seem to be more over project than they should be which isn't any help to peoples' independence. A lot of people like to make friends and reationships so do people with disabilities. Everyone goes through risks in life so do people with disabilities. Everyone needs to be strong to life so do people with disabilities. Everyone needs money to go out so do people with disabilities. There diffence can be that most people with disabilities need support to get out and about. When your out spare a thought for those who can't get out and about without help.
For the last year or so there's been a big credit cruch, now it's getting worse. A lot of things have cut back not just things for people with disabilities. The more things that do cut back, there will be nothing left of the country. Mates to Dates have cut back and Circle of Friends are either cutting back or already have.
As I may be have told you early on in this site. My relationship broke up 13 and a half years ago, which was on and off. I still carried going to his house every night for two years after the slit just as friends. It's turned out things got that bad I found myself needing counseling to get myself on my feet again plus my work is keeping me going as well. The last time I had counseling, I was given a very interesting book to read called THE ASPERGER LOVE GUIDE.'We all know that people with disabilities find it very hard to find friendships and love to keep hold of. We all know that a lot of relationships are not meant to last anyway even in led people without but it can can get bit too much when each one ends for the reason of having disabilities. This book I am reading is a guide to help people with disabilities cope with relationship and to help without disabilities cope too when having partners who are Asperger.
I would like to write a book called DISABILITIES, FRIENDSHIPS AND LOVE' I would like to say why in my book why I think people disabilities find it hard to make friends and reationships. People with disabilities also understand that it can be hard for people without disabilities to make friendships and reationships too.
Everyone needs to make friends.
Most people like to have lovers.
People with disabilities want to make friends too.
Most people with disabilities want to have someone to love just like most of you do.
Commuication and understanding helps for us to get along together in life.
People with disabilities would like to teach people without how to communicate with us and how to understand us.
sarajgorman@googlemail.com or and Facebook sarajgorman@gmail.com, you are welcome to read Mencap's website on staying up late WWW. mencap.org.uk/stayuplate. A lot of people with disabilities have complained about their evenings been too short for them because of their support workers finishing work. Some people with disabilities don't get out at all due to been controlled by carers, families and not enough support working staff.
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