Wednesday, 30 December 2020

Dear Mind

 

Introduction

My name is Sara Jane Gorman, I am an Awareness trainer of learning disability and mental health, this issue I would not wish it on anyone, sadly rape and abuse can happen to anyone, and no one should have to face it but sadly it has always happened and still does.

 

It is all in your mind they said but no was not because it has never been forgotten. Life goes on and the only way life goes on realizing I am not alone, which I used to think I was alone, and I thought I was imaging things, I thought I was going mad then over the years I found out many others faced the same as me in different times and ways. I would think of others anyway but raising awareness and realizing I am not alone is my way of getting on with my life and trying to help others going through if not the same but similar.

This a story of a childhood experience I do not know how to put it into words to make sense to others, I never have been able to.

 For over 40 years now what I am writing about today is bad memories not words and that is because of having disabilities, special needs, mental health, etc.

 What happened is hard to forget no matter how hard I try not remembering but even now I struggle to put it into words. However,’ I am trying to put it in the best possible way I can for not just for my sake but for others of all generations and ages, who have faced rape and abuse. Sadly, rape and abuse still happen, even though it is dealt with a different way than it was more than 40 years ago and more where people had bad memories but worse no voices now, we have if we wish to say.

 

 

 However,’ even so not everyone finds it easy to say mainly if you have disabilities, mental health or and other problems, children, teenagers, the elderly, etc. How can you help these people to have a voice if they wish to, your support matters? No one can force people to talk but there are ways people can if they wish to. https://helplines.org/helplines/supportline-2/

https://www.supportline.org.uk/

https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/help-and-support/get-help/supportline

https://www.thesurvivorstrust.org/faqs/supportline

Just to say sorry about the story is not being very written as I am Dyslexia. Just to say the way it happened in the story to the character did not happen to me in the same way, but I did face rape and abuse within the school but not on a school trip.

 

  Dear Mind

It was all in her mind, but it is not; she must have had a nightmare the time when Cherry Rose Pike was attacked on a school trip to London. 

   January to February 1982 with Woodfield Special Boarding school. The truth is that she was not believed.

Cherry had lost sight of children and staff as they were crossing the traffic lights and Cherry had lost her whereabouts.

What Cherry then saw the gate open into Saint James’s park round about 4.00pm on a dark Friday evening.

Suddenly an old guy named Jack brown grabbed her and pushes her into the nearest hedge as Cherry screams blue murder as he forces himself on her. She had no idea what was happening to her, she thought he was going to kill her.

She never saw what he looked like, other than long grey hair and bred.

“Get off me, leave me alone!” as Cherry screamed

 

 It was so sudden, dark, and quick, it was hard for her to notice much as the Park keeper came as quick as he could, then grabbed Jack by the scruff of his neck.

 

 Jack ran off, then Ralph the keeper took Cherry to the Police station.

 

Ralph found it hard to know what to say, other than.

“Where are you from and how are you here?”

“My name is Cherry Rose Pike, from Wolverhampton, I am on a Special Boarding school trip and I lost sight of everyone.”

“Oh, dear they are all worried about you and your parents but let’s get to the police station they will help you to get home.”

Cherry was shaking and too much in shock to speak.

Ralph struggled to cope with the situation as he told the police behind the desk what happened and left.

 

 

 

Cherry was 12 years of age, raped by Jack Brown at Saint James’ Park London 4.05 pm, Friday 31st January 1982.

She was pumped in the stomach and had two black eyes.

Cherry was special needs; went to special schools and she was in a child’s home and also raised by her Mother’s family.

As a result of the rape, she was pregnant, but baby Nike Pike was adopted for a year as Cherry a year after the birth of the baby came into contact with her father, the baby’s Grandfather Fred who supported her.

On the night of the rape, it took a while for the school to realize there was a child missing as they called the police and cherry family on the way back to Wolverhampton. Cherry was then picked up by her family at the Police station in London. By Sara Jane Gorman  

 

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