Sunday 27 March 2022

Disabled Mental Health friends, hobbies,all good,social/support

 Disabled Mental health friends, hobbies, all good, social/support.


Our Admin team
creator and head admin Sara Gorman
Head Admin Harry Cawood
Admins
Alistair Wilkinson
Barry Matthews
Jennifer Gibert
I have changed the name to edit the group and add more onto the group, which mean this group is to give a chance to try and make friends with other members, enjoy hobbies, interests, all good things you may enjoy, social means socialize with friends, support means we are here for members if you need us. For example, emotional support, reporting a problem with the group, people, or people on the group on negative issues, etc.
This group is a support and social group to give people with disabilities, mental health, and other problems a chance to try to make friends talk about, post, share, etc things like hobbies, interests, and other things you enjoy with each other as members.
Lockdown had a huge impact on people's lives one way or another and for most of us in generation socializing was one of them. When having disabilities, mental health, or and other problems a lot of us are overprotected in many ways, even if those ways weren't wrong Covid has not helped at all.
Isolating any of us from people unless we needed support etc and even then support either didn't come when we wanted it or not at all but this is just guesses, it might not be the same for everyone.
No matter what happens in our lives outside the group elsewhere on Facebook or and anywhere else, we feel we owe it to you to have the chance to try and make friends with other members, share posts, chat about your hobbies, interests, careers, etc. It is a chat group where you can chat about what you want but we thought we would try to bring in positive things to try and help you makes friends, with those who would like to. This could be arts, crafts, film, talent, tv, music, radio, books, internet, devices, having fun, crosswords, word searches, quizzes, etc; pool, darts, swimming, etc.
This is not a dating group but outside the group, we don't control that but we do safeguard and we are there for you if you face problems as long as it's to do with people in the group.
All the same, we are here for safety tips, ofter emotional support, etc for those on the group if you ask.
Those who wish to try and make friends please feel to add a picture with a brief message about yourself if you wish.
This group is a support and social group to give people with disabilities, mental health, and other problems a chance to try to make friends talk about, post, share, etc things like hobbies, interests, and other things you enjoy with each other as members.
These could be other things, for example, arts, talents, crafts, creativity, film, tv, music, radio, books, the internet, devices, careers, having fun, quizzes, word searches, crosswords, and more.
This is not a dating group but outside the group, we don't control that but we do safeguard and we are there for you if you face problems as long as it's to do with people in the group.
All the same, we are here for safety tips, ofter emotional support, etc for those in the group if you ask.

Just had thought but before I go on just to let you know this is an option we are offering, it is there but no one is forced to go for it because it is there.
I have created this group for members to get to know members and make friends with those who may want to. I know we go on about the rules on pming or and friends requests, which still stand we do this because not everyone knows one another on Facebook, so in respect for one another if you wish to pm or and friends request first and accept one another's the answer to how it's said.
However, there is no harm in just chatting on the group to members so those who wish, some may want to do that, pm or and friends, or both in the case maybe. Most may feel safer just chatting in the group because Admins can see if there are any problems.
A chance to post, chat about your hobbies, interests, careers, and other things you enjoy, generally and socially such as going to the pictures, pub, out for a meal, etc, and other things you may enjoy.
What we also promise is support which is the emotional support that still stands, but offers support as well for those who may want support with their hobbies, interests, careers, anything else you may enjoy or and want to do etc.
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Those who wish to try and make friends please feel to add a picture with a brief message about yourself if you wish.

This group is a support and social group to give people with disabilities, mental health, and other problems a chance to try to make friends talk about, post, share, etc things like hobbies, interests, famous people and their talents and yours, other things you enjoy with each other as members.
This could be other things, for example, arts, talents, crafts, creativity, film, tv, music, radio, books, the internet, devices, careers, having fun, quizzes, word searches, crosswords, and more.
This is not a dating group but outside the group, we don't control that but we do safeguard and we are there for you if you face problems as long as it's to do with people in the group.
All the same, we are here for safety tips, ofter emotional support, etc for those on the group if you ask.
Those who wish to try and make friends please feel to add a picture with a brief message about yourself if you wish.
Be kind No spam, No porn, No hate speech, No bullying No Hacking, No private messages or friend requests without asking people first, only if they say yes unless you know them and they know you. Nothing nasty at all respect everyone in the group, respect each other this includes Admins as well as members, thank you.
Apart from many other things disability, mental health and other problems can cause loneliness but we are not alone, there is more than one of us. Here is your chance to try and find people to chat to who are not necessarily the same but similar to you. A chance to also to post, chat, etc about things you enjoy, like doing, etc such as hobbies, interests, career, or and other things you may enjoy.
Just to say as we also offer emotional support to those who ask.
We advise you not to say on the group what you need to speak to the admin, wait till an Admin private messages you.
If needs be the proof of the problem if you can provide to us is helpful so we can see for ourselves how to do our job right. This be, for example, could be because you are trying to prove a problem on this group, person, people on this group, someone from this group on your private message, maybe a negative experience you have had from services, etc.
Say you need to speak to admin and them to private message you, who replies may private message you, they may ask another Admin or me.
Everything on private message is between you and the admin but if the admin is concerned about your safety they may speak to our Admin team or ask another admin or me if they are not trained to deal with what you are talking about. If none of us know we will look for websites, information online, etc.


Lockdown had a huge impact on people's lives one way or another and for most of us in generation socializing was one of them. When having disabilities, mental health, or and other problems a lot of us are overprotected in many ways, even if those ways weren't wrong Covid has not helped at all.

Isolating any of us from people unless we needed support etc and even then support either didn't come when we wanted it or not at all but this is just guesses, it might not be the same for everyone.
No matter what happens in our lives outside the group elsewhere on Facebook or and anywhere else, we feel we owe it to you to have the chance to try and make friends with other members, share posts, chat about your hobbies, interests, careers, etc. It is a chat group where you can chat about what you want but we thought we would try to bring in positive things to try and help you makes friends, with those who would like to. This could be arts, crafts, film, talent, tv, music, radio, books, internet, devices, having fun, crosswords, word searches, quizzes, etc; pool, darts, swimming, etc.

1. If you're facing a problem with anything, don't say what it is until one of us private messages you.
2. It is up to you, but just to make you aware, in the group, there are others who see what you have written even though it is a private group, which means people in the group are likely to see but not people are not in the group.

3. If the problem is within a person or people in the group, please let us know on private message and we are always grateful for proof so
we don't block and remove people from the groups who haven't done anything wrong by mistake.

4. Just say all if we receive private messages on the group from people we don't know etc we won't reply unless you have asked us on the group first. 
5. However'  admins have a say just like members do, which means whoever replies either they will private messages you themselves, asks another Admin or me.
 Just the same with members you don't know.
1. However, if you are wishing to try and get to know people meaning members of the group you. Feel free to write a brief introduction of yourself.
2. Everyone who joins because they want to make new friends, talk about, post their hobbies and interests, etc or both reasons.
3. Never force people to reply and admins have no control over who does and doesn't reply to you.
4. Be patent with people as people are on and offline at different times etc.
5. Feel free if you want to ask us for disability socializing, dating, etc information online websites, etc and there are also other Facebook groups as well.
 With people you don't know feel free to give them permission to private message, friends request you if you like.
Do not private message or and friends request them unless you ask their permission and they say yes. 
 Do please ask first if you don't know them, you are added as a friend to them, you are a friend theirs, you have been private messaging each other already, etc, this means member and admin. Just remember admins are here to do admin but if you know each other etc outside the group is both your business.
If you are friends, family, etc with one of us, some of us or all of us, etc, social chats, etc should be out of the groups, private message elsewhere, etc as Admins are here to be on the In respect of your privacy, if you let us know you're facing a problem guys, our advice does not to write the problem on the group.


Make sure you don't request on any more than 2 profiles, whether it's one profile or 2 make sure you have a picture of you in the place where the profile picture is so it's seen when you post etc.


Just to let you all know, no buying, selling, or Advertising in the group, no spam, porn, hacking, hate crime, don't force people to do what they don't want to do, no bullying, no nastiness, swearing, etc.
Do respect one another, be kind and nice to one, please report it to us with proof if you face any negative from anyone in our groups.
We advise you not to write the problem on the group, ask for Admin to pm you, who will be either the Admin who replies on the group, another Admin or and me.
Everything is private with us on pm but if we are concerned about your safety or not trained to deal with what you're talking about we may talk to one another but it would not be said to anyone else, same goes for any other reason for us to pm you.
Do not pm us socially unless you have our permission to pm us, problems on the group, person, people on the group, if you know us as a friend, family, school, work, college, etc; emotional support important reasons, the same respect for members as well as us. Although the group is created for members to make friends, even share, etc hobbies, interests, careers or and anything else you may enjoy. If you know one another or and given each other permission to pm or and friend request etc is fine, if not do not contact one another without asking each, unless if you allow each other to do so.
Please not put the proof on the group, put it on the private message of whichever one of us PMs you.
No asking anyone for money but donations to charities you can post if you wish but do not force people to donate, leave it their choice if they donate or not.

NO PORN
NO CRIME
NO HACKING
NO BLOCKING ADMINS OR MEMBERS
NO BULLYING
NO ABUSE
NO PRIVATE OR AND FRIEND REQUESTING UNLESS KNOW OR AND HAVE PEOPLE'S PERMISSION OR AND YOU KNOW FOR SURE WOULDN'T MIND YOU DOING SO.
The idea of the group is for members wanting to make friends with other members but we try to safety guard as not everyone knows one another on Facebook even though the idea of a friendship group is to try to get to know people but we try to safeguard and give safety advice, which is.
Feel free to write a brief message to the group about you saying who you are and where you are from for example London but do not write your address, phone, etc, no personal details, which is the rules and advice.
Feel free to say what you enjoy doing for example it may be drawing and painting. We have no control over whether people reply or not but be patient as people are on and offline the group etc at different times. Never force anyone to reply, if no one does, by all means, feel free to ask us for information, websites, etc that may help to meet and get to know people if you want and also their other Facebook groups.
However' please consider some people maybe just on the group for hobbies etc, whereas others may want to just make friends and others may be on for both reasons.
Those who wish to try and make friends please feel to add a picture with a brief message about yourself if you wish.

No friends requests, private messages without people's permission meaning members and admins unless know them, unless you are already added as a friend to them, unless you have been private messaging you already, unless you friends already, etc. If you like feel free to say what disabilities you face etc.

As a whole Admins are here to work, if you know or and friends, added as a friend to one of us, some of us or all try to understand on the group are there to work, else what takes place out of the group.
However' feel free to report problems but let us know on the group first so we accept you need our help.
Don't say the problem, person, people on the group, ask for an admin.
This could be either the admin who replied to your message on the group, another admin, or myself who could pm you.
Provide proof of the problem, people, person, etc so we are not blocking and removing people who haven't done anything wrong.
Do not put the proof on the group, put on the private message to whichever one of us private messages you.
We can not always promise if a friendship etc is going to last etc, how long, how short but we can safety guard and advice, for example, if you face problems with people or a person on our group or private message, feel free to provide the proof and report it to us, on to the private message of whichever one of us private messages you not on the group its self.
Just to say private messages won't be answered if you haven't asked us on the group first.
However' if we know you and recognized your name etc, we will either reply ourselves r report it to our team.
All are private on private messages but if either we are concerned about your safety or we are not trained etc to deal with what you talking about the team may talk to each other but what you say will go no further than you and the admin you talking to or and our team. In some situations we may not need to do this, it may be in some cases just finding your websites, information, etc.
Pretty much like our other disabled group is the same rules and purpose applies.
The only difference is that this group is only a disabled friendship, hobbies, interests and other positive things group, the purpose is in the title. whereas our other disabled group has all topics onhttps://sararevealed.blogspot.com/2022/02/disability-mental-health-and-all.html

Three questions on the group now in case you want to invite people you know who may benefit from this group.
However' if they know you, know us, they are in our groups or other disabled groups they do not need to answer the questions but people who do not know anyone else in the group, people not in a disabled group our other groups, who have not been on our groups before who we don't recognize, will need to answer the questions.
For safety reasons, it will be helpful if people do answer the questions though.
Here are questions if you need them for any reason.
Do you face disabilities, mental health, other problems if so what?
What is the reason for joining this group, making friends, chatting sharing, hobbies interests, good thins or both reasons?

Will you follow the purpose and safety rules of the group?
If you invite people to the group by the FB please find out if the people you invite will give you the answers to our questions, if not give them our group link if they wish to join to request and answer the questions themselves. find out from them first before you invite them, we do not want people complaining about being put in the group without being asked.
Make sure you only request and make others aware you may invite, do not request on more than 2 profiles.
Just to say no buying, selling, asking people for money, no advertising, spam, etc.
However, ' donations are fine to charity but do not force people to donate, leave their choice whether they donate or not.
Posting disability, mental health, and other problems events are fine but only post them say once a week, do not post them none stop say, thank you.

Advice tip that may help you make friends safely.
Write a very short introduction about yourself for example my name is Fred Blogs I am from London. I enjoy drawing and painting.
See you get any replies if you do that may or may not depend on who replies to you, whether you wish or not to give them your permission to a private message or and friend request you that is your choice.
Also, remember there will be others who will be joining this group and if you ask us we offer, websites, information online disability and mental health socializing, plus there other disabled, etc social groups on Facebook if you look.
Just to say if you face problems we advise for your privacy as well as safety you do not write the problem on the group but say you are facing a problem and you like an Admin to private message, which will either be the one replies, another Admin or myself.
Do not Private message any Admin until an Admin replies to you on the group, they will tell you they going to private you, try and get another Admin to or and me.
Please give us proof of the problem, person, or and people, do not put the proof on the group, put it on the private message of whichever 1 of us private messages you.
If you have faced abuse on the private message of the group or anything similar, a proof will be helpful enough to see who is causing you the problem then we will block and remove them from the group. We advise do not to block them until u have passed the proof to us, which could be on a private message, the group, or even your profile, the group then block them on a private message or and your profile if you are added to them.
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