Hopefully, these tips and advice won't just help you to make and keep you safe and maybe make friends successfully, which know whatever we do and don't we cannot promise that we would be lying if we did and lying is something we don't do. Here we want to supply ways so you don't get blocked by someone and what may stop you from blocking someone. It is not telling you what to do, this is just advice and tips, don't need to take notice but they may help you if you do.
Like we said before we are not forcing people
to be friends or not make friends but for those who may want to and all of you,
we don't want to you feel frightened of trying to make friends because our
rules, our are there to try and make everyone feel safe. For example, asking
those you don't know if you can privately message or and, friend request them,
which means if they ask you, they need to respect your answer, and also if you
like you need to answer at all. They need to request your wishes what you say
or not, if you ask them, they need to accept your reaction to.
sorry for the long-winded rules as 3 Admins have been hacked
including myself and 2 of us have been mentally abused on private messages
trying to help 3 members, who we blocked. Plus, in past friendship groups, we
have had members reporting members for contacting them when most hadn't even
spoken to one another before. We don't want the same to happen to you.
What is on private message is between you and the
person you are chatting to but safety-wise we are here for you.
We have no intentions of running your lives but as
we all know not everyone knows one another on Facebook, 3 of us have been
hacked, and abused by 3 members we blocked on private messages while we were
helping, we do not want the same or similar happening to you as it has to us if
that happens hopefully not feel free to report to us if it is from anyone on
this group people or person. This is why we make the rule no PMing or and
friends requests unless asking permission and someone says yes unless you know
someone as friends, family, someone you went to school, work college or
elsewhere any other reason.
This means the same with other contacts too,
phone, video chat, profile, etc.
Ask people you don't know and if you don't know
you first if you can contact them first, don't just contact them or say you
going to ask them if you can. I know people and you know for sure they will be
fine for you to contact them, that's okay as long as they are okay.
Sorry if this is over the top as we had a
disabled friendship in the past where members were reporting other members, and contacting them many had not even spoken to each other before and some were
hearing off people they didn't want to hear off.
However,' despite the rules, this is a chat and
social group to share chat about, post your hobbies, interests, careers, etc
anything you enjoy, more information is further down this post, description,
and website link, please have fun but respect everyone on the group to how they
feel, think, etc as well as yourself. Chat, post about what you want but
nothing rude, nasty, negative, etc towards anyone or anything. Feel free to
report any problems you may face, more information on this post, description,
and our website links.
Just letting know that this is not a dating
group, which doesn't match make people together we cannot stop what happens
outside the group, but we offer emotional support if you ask for it.
Remember members and Admins have their say,
meaning if you want if you wish to pm an Admin it must not be socially as
Admins are here to work on the group unless you know us unless we give you
permission to do so.
Tips
and advice on how to be glad for life friendship, which doesn't necessarily
mean we are always right, you don't to go along with us, but it may help you if
you do, don't know everything.
Respect one
another
Be kind to one
another
Never force
anyone into anything they don't want.
Never ask
someone about their past if it's said let it be said by them.
No matter what
your money situation is never ask someone for money.
Never give
personal contact details unless, until etc you get to know one another for a
long time if meet up we advise do not go to each other's houses, meet somewhere
out and about like cath, pub, etc, try to find safe places, feel free to ask us
for travel information, etc if needs be.
Always take no
for answer even if you think it's unfair if you feel it is necessary to find
out more from the person make the situation as less stressful as possible, do
not row with the person or and don't focus on things out on them, etc.
If your chat
starts to get stressful, try to bring on a positive subject.
If they do
choose to give you their contact details do not give them to another person
unless they give permission to do, even then only give them to those the person
says you can.
Do try to be
helpful to the person. If they don't wish to tell you anything don't force it
out of them but let them know you are here for them if they want to chat. Lots
of people face mental health and mental services get very busy these days so
does our Admin team therefore if you make good friendships, you’re not only
helping yourselves one another you are helping us, your friend in crisis and
mental health services. To be a good friend is to be a good listener, don't
force them to talk about the problem it may be something it may be noting some
can feel sad, angry, etc without and without a reason. Let them know you are
here if they wish to talk. Always respect their privacy never tell anyone what
they do without their permission, if they say you tell anyone only say whoever
they say you. However, if you have any concerns for their safety let them know
you will need to contact or advise them to mental health service or write a
message on our group asking me or and one of our Admin team to private message
them if neither of us can deal with their situation we will give them
information online, websites, etc, even contacts crisis team, etc if we feel to
what they say, we concern that they may be in risk. If we are aware, that you and
the person are friends, we will advise them if they can if we know your private
message each other to private message you for them to let you know how they are.
Do not bully,
abuse, or be nasty to the person in any way.
Try to bring on
positive subjects such as hobbies, interests, careers, famous people you both
may like, your careers, study, works, etc.
It might be also
what you like doing socially etc, going to the pub, pictures, etc.
Favorite film,
music, etc.
However,
if you have tried everything can and your help isn't making any difference to
the person, they may not be trying to help themselves, they may be abusive,
nasty to you, etc, they may not be talking for an answer, they may be forcing
you into things you don't want, etc, please feel free to report it to us,
provide proof, let us know the group you're facing a problem don't say who and
what on the group. Ask for an Admin, don't put the proof on the group, if
whoever replies to your message, whichever admin I mean they don't wish to pm
you, they will say but they will let know they will try to get another Admin or
and myself. please be patient as we are all on and offline at different times,
if you don't feel safe in the group if we are not around by all means you don't
necessarily need to leave unless you wish to but it's fine for you to not go on
the group if you wish till one of us can pm you. which may not depend on, what
happens when we do pm you in your view. Proof of the problem will be the most helpful
to us to see the whose problem to you and then there's no reason for us to block
and remove people who haven't done anything wrong.
Just
a reminder if you face a problem from anyone in the group, on your private
message, profile, or on our groups, feel free to report that to us, whichever
one of us and when we pm you have the proof ready to put the proof of the
problem, person on and people on to the Admin's private message who PMs you, we
advise for your own safety please do not put the proof on the group, even
though it's proof of the truth the person or people you may have caused your
problem may cause more problem but we will block and remove them from the
groups, our PMS, our profiles if we are added as a friend to them, etc and we
advise you to block them from your pm and profile if you added to them but wait
until we are able to see the proof first. If don't feel safe to go on the
groups while waiting for us, keep a look ever so often for our pm, then don't
on the groups till we have PMed you, also if the person or and carry PMing you
while you are waiting for us, we advise not to reply to their messages because
the more problems they try to cause the more reasons we will have to block
them. Also, if they see you're not replying, at some point as time goes on they
may get fed up of carrying on anyway. Once we have seen your proof and you can
block them so can we.
including contact details of services,
charities, etc who are more trained than we such as counseling, etc on our
group description on the right-hand side.
Mind Infoline is open 9am to 6pm, Monday to
Friday. We're closed outside of those hours. But there are people you can talk
to any time: call Samaritans on 116 123 (UK-wide)
http://www.stophateuk.org/ 0800 138 1625
WWW.crimestoppers-uk.org 0800 555 111
Learning Disability Hate Crime Stop Crime
Helpline 0800 802 1155
http://www.mind.org.uk/ 0300 123 3393 email
info@mind.org.uk
Samaritans WWW.sameritans.org 08457 90 90 90
Elder Abuse WWW. ageuk.org.uk 0808 808 81141
Victim Support WWW,victimsupport.org.uk 08045
3030 900
NHS medical help non-emergency 111 WWW.nhs. the
UK
NSPCC Helpline WWW.nspcc.org.uk 0808 800 5000
Citizens Advice 0844 111 444 from landline 0300
330 06550 from mobile and WWW.adviceguide.org.uk
Community legal advice 0845 345 4345 WWW.justice.org.uk
Emergency 999
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-services
http://inspiritedminds.org.uk/
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-emergency-if-youre-crisis-or-despair
Free listening services
These services offer confidential support from
trained volunteers. You can talk about anything that's troubling you, no matter
how difficult:
·
Call 116 123 to talk
to Samaritans, or email: jo@samaritans.org for
a reply within 24 hourshttps://www.samaritans.org/
·
Text
"SHOUT" to 85258 to contact the Shout Crisis
Text Line, or text "YM" if you're under 19
If you're under 19, you can also call 0800 1111 to
talk to Childline.
The number will not appear on your phone bill.
https://sandyhealthcentre.nhs.uk/practice-information/a-z-list-of-organisations-for-mental-health/
https://www.time-to-change.org.uk/mental-health-and-stigma/help-and-support
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/helplines/
http://www.rethink.org/about-us/our-mental-health-advice
http://www.themix.org.uk/get-support
https://www.rethink.org/aboutus/what-we-do/advice-and-information-service/get-help-now/
https://www.derbyshirehealthcareft.nhs.uk/contact-us
https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/mental-health/
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https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention.htm
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