Most people think people with Dyslexia cannot read
and write, which is not the case, we just may think, write, see things the
wrong way round, letters, words, etc maybe not in the right places etc. We may
miss things out such as letters, words, sentences etc but it is not always the
case of everyone. What we think may make sense in minds not necessary make
sense to other people down on paper. This tends to lose us marks in exams etc,
which is where the help comes in, even though we know someone else cannot do
test for us but read the questions out etc but help us with our studying etc.
This I never got in school, but I did in college in some courses. Dyslexia
tends to affect handwriting and we can make more mistakes than other people but
on the positive side we can be rather talented come up with good ideas but
without the right help it doesn’t always come out to make sense to the world.
We can go through loads of paper etc until we can
get something good enough for others to understand but this can vary as every
person is different. Dyslexia like all problems really are not all negative we
have strengths too.
Reading.
I cannot speak for anyone else who faces Dyslexia
but even when I was a child and now, when I see small print, which can cause headaches and dizziness, when trying to
forus etc. It is as if words are jumping
off the page, which puts me off from reading a book etc. In fact, in the past,
I have so far, and the bookmark would be still in the book however long after
or forever. One thing my grandmother found hard to understand by me is and I
am not surprised in the slightest as I did not really understand myself to be
honest, how, and why I could not stick to the reading as a whole, which never really
achieved until I was in my late teen's early twenties I guess and even then. My
Gran used to take me to the library from the age of eight etc and tried to
encourage me to read as she used to go to the library from the age of eight
when the second world war broke out.
I do not think I have read many books in
my life that I have thought I enjoyed. Some things I need to go back to.
Lack of comprehension is an awkward thing to understand, it’s the same with tv where
you enjoy an easy take an interest while you’re watching or reading but do not
really remember once it is over, which can be embarrassing.
However,’ this can depend on the layout of the book, etc, if the book is accessible as well as naturally interesting it’s very
likely the person may well not only stick to it to the end but even possibly
remember the story.
Also, my concentration can be easily affected by
for example someone talking, a phone ringing, door knocking, etc.
Dyslexia is
not an illness or condition; it is a learning disability and difficulty. You may
well be quick and slow in different ways compared to other people. Dyslexia is an education problem but also a
talent and gift in different people in different ways similar to Autism too.
Some people may be creative in such things as arts, and crafts, poetry, writing,
drawing, painting, etc.
Such things in reading, writing, and speaking may
come out wrong such as PS and qs the wrong way round, Ms and ns, bs and ds, etc.
Also, numbers such as 21 and 12. Think
of Morgan and Wise as the right keys but in the wrong order.
Most of us may have what you call memory blocks,
finding it hard to spell certain words, etc, but very often misunderstood for
being a dump, clumsy, poor, and lazy, etc which those sorts of words our head
too much isn’t good to encourage us to get to a point we think we have no
positives in us, which is not true, in most ways different strengths to other
people.
Most of us benefit from better one to one face to face
help, which not sure about others similar to me but the Covid lockdown made that
hard as everyone was having to distance themselves from one another, health, and safety-wise, it was a wise thing to do even though we did not want to stop our lives.
I have never been able to work out maths in my
head, where it was beyond me and still is really if the answer is any more than
ten when you only have ten fingers on your hand, well five on each sorry lol! I
hated maths and still do.
As a small child, I had a big thing about clocks,
where I saw five past twelve for eg, in my mind was one past twelve.
I used to get confused with left and right.
I have mostly coped with small family help, which is still the case now even more so as I live on my own. It has taken a lot of
years to get where I am today. I do not need someone coming 24.7 or every day but maybe once a week at least.
As a child and teenager, to the way I was and the way
others saw me, I never knew why and how to control everything that made me
misunderstood.
I learn like everyone else just slower and with the
right help.
I believe being diagnosed probably helps you and others to understand you and to know what the right help is for you.
I could have done with counseling as a child,
which was not around back then.
Signs of Dyspraxia.
Not a very good posture
Unbalanced, struggling with movement
Poor hand and wrist coordination, very
little strength, and grip.
Struggling to learn new skills
Struggling to plan and organize
Untidy handwriting, hands ache after so long of writing, we tend
to use the keyboard mostly.
Differently in grooming and housework.
· Verbal
(or motor) dyspraxia.
· Constructional
dyspraxia - this is to do with spatial relationships.
· Ideational
dyspraxia - affects the ability to perform coordinated movements in a sequence.
· Ideomotor
dyspraxia - affects organizing single-step tasks.
· What
are the three types of dyspraxia?
· The different
types of dyspraxia – verbal, oral, and motor – appear
differently. Across the three types of dyspraxia, symptoms can include:
struggling to produce clear, fluent speech or to say particular words or
phrases. difficulty with fine motor skills like handwriting or tying shoelaces
The positive side of Dyspraxia.
People with Dyspraxia are good at thinking ahead and problem–solving.
We are highly motivated and
creative in different ways, which may depend on the type of Dyspraxia we have.
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