Saturday 25 July 2020

Special needs need chat awareness group

This group is for people with disabilities, special needs, and or and other problems support and chat groups for the people themselves and others in their lives such as parents, families, carers, social workers, partners, friends, support workers, professionals, etc. We support all topics of lives such as health, education, employment, social lives, and more. communication, access, diversity, etc.

It is a socializing group but to make friends, but it is not a problem if any members become more than friends and everyone respects everyone for their own choices, feelings, etc. Remember not everyone knows people on the FB whether it's an Admin or Member you want to talk to don't pm or and friend request without asking them first unless you have been pming them beforehand or and your add as a friend to them already. Like it is on our other groups no socializing with Admins unless you know them already which case do involve other members or our Admin team unless you know us already but even then keep it out our groups and work as Admin. Admins are here to safeguard and sort out problems you may face with other people.

Please find out who people are, even why they are on the group if you decide to socialize in case they are involved of the lives of people with disabilities because they may be a parent, family member, carer, partner, friend, service user, social worker, support worker, professional, etc.



This is a group for people with special needs disabilities or and all problems, which is an all-round group which means all areas in life including for people with disabilities, etc to socialize and also those in their lives, such as parents, families, carers, services users, friends, partners, social workers, support workers professionals studying, training, trained, qualified to get to chat one another those who may wish, those who may want to learn or and get support off one another or and be there for one another.


http://www.stophateuk.org/ 0800 138 1625

WWW.crimestoppers-uk.org 0800 555 111

Learning Disability Hate Crime Stop Crime Helpline 0800 802 1155

http://www.mind.org.uk/ 0300 123 3393 email info@mind.org.uk

Samaritans WWW.sameritans.org 08457 90 90 90

Elder Abuse WWW. ageuk.org.uk 0808 808 81141

Victim Support WWW,victimsupport.org.uk 08045 3030 900

NHS medial help non - emergency 111 WWW.nhs.uk

NSPCC Helpline WWW.nspcc.org.uk 0808 800 5000

Citizens Advice 0844 111 444 from landline 0300 330 06550 from mobile and WWW.adviceguide.org.uk

Community legal advice 0845 345 4345 WWW.justice.org.uk
Emergency 999
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-services
http://inspiritedminds.org.uk/
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/mental-health-emergency-if-youre-crisis-or-despair

https://www.facebook.com/groups/AnxietyandDepressionThebigtalk/
https://www.rethink.org/diagnosis-treatment/treatment-and-support/crisis-teams
If you need support to find important contacts that aren't this list, please feel to pm us but if we don't reply quick enough for you there are groups you could join not much different to ours.














Socializing purpose and rules

Socialize in finding friends, relationships, both and have emotional support for break up of past relationships if you please to, which mean either talking to one of us on pm or and us finding you information online on counseling and emotional support near you or and you could that support from another on the group. As the socializing group is for disabled members who want friendship with other disabled members but it's not a problem if more friends become of people but please follow the rules and respect the feelings and choices of others.

You also have the right to just make friends if you want even if you're not in a relationship. Whatever the situation please respect the feelings and choices of others as well as your own. Feel free to introduce your self to the members, add a selfie, chat, etc, keep it clean and safe. Ideas of topics in case you're stuck on what to chat about hobbies, interests, education, career, socializing, favorite music, band, flim what you like on tv, etc.

.It's understandable you may not want to meet people who you have only spoke to on the internet and just on the group, that's no problem but for those who do want to see each other outside the FB we advise please do be careful, we are not telling anyone what to do just giving advice. If you can please go with someone you know until you have met up for at least 12 months. 

This is a friendship and or relationship only group. Please respect people's feelings and choices, don't someone to want to know you if they don't.

 We do give travel advice looking on sites for travel information etc but signing up is down to you or you will have to find a face to face support you need it and that's the same with money etc as we are not trained for that. 

We would also advise you to talk to members on the group at least 12 months before think about meeting them face to face if you don't them already etc.






POST ALLOWED. 

Health, education, employment, housing, social lives; reports on different issues happening in the lives of people with disabilities, special needs, etc like we post on another disability group. 

Feel free to introduce yourselves, have fun but keep it safe and clean,  add selfie but no rude pictures, no sexual post, and no prod. 
Free to add video from youtube, pictures for example on your favorite music, film, hobby, etc. 
Like the last social group we do not control who you do and don't mix with but on this group, there could be people in the lives of disabilities. special needs etc so please ask who people are etc if they reply to you. Only socialize with members, with disabilities, special needs, etc, not with Admins or people involved with disabilities, special needs, etc, do not socialize with someone's Mum for example.  They would have joined this group if they do to support their son or and daughter with special needs etc unless you happen to know one another in which case take out the group. 

Whether you want to meet up with people or not is your choice but you must respect the choices and feelings of the people you're socializing with for example if they say they would just prefer to chat on the group please respect that. 

Feel free to ask us for information online like travel etc as long as you know we can't sign up to anything or get involved with your money so if you need any support there, it would have been from people you know face to face. 



Safety rules.
1. Don’t add someone to the group unless you have asked them if they agree have made us aware. (Please let us know.)
2. No bullying or hate crime, if you face bullying and hate crime please feel to report it us and we will see that an Admin who know how to report the person to Facebook does that as long as you have proof and whatever happens that person will be removed and blocked from our groups. 
3. No out seen or sexual post.
4. No advertising product.
5. No talk of drugs unless it’s a certain awareness of disabilities and health problems.
6. No porn.
7. No swearing
8. If by any chance you have a very strong dislike towards someone and they are bugging you that much, please leave the group in respect of the other members don't communicate with that person on the group, you don’t have to give a reason unless you want to.
9. If you face anything nasty for anyone please feel free to report it to us and we will remove and block the person and even report them to Facebook if you feel there's a need to do that. 
10. If you are aware of anyone breaking these rules please let us know thank you.
11. Please do not join our groups on more than just two profile, it gets confusing for us, thank you. 


12.  NO GIVING PERSONAL DETAILS SUCH AS ADDRESSES, EMAIL ADDRESSES. PHONE NUMBERS ETC, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY TO SOMEONE IF YOU PM SOMEONE. DON'T WRITE TO YOURS OR THEIR PERSONAL DETAILS ON THE GROUP OR GIVE THEM TO ANOTHER PERSON WITHOUT A PERON'S PERMISSION IF THEY REPORT YOU WITH PROOF, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED AND REMOVED OFF THE GROUP, MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOUR PASSWORDS.
13, Do not judge anyone.
14. No discrimination
15. No Sigma
16. Remember this group is to support people with disabilities or and or all problems to access all topics of life so socializing is one of them so always ask who people are and why they have joined the group because this group is also for people in the lives of disabilities, or and all problems such as parents, carers, families, friends, partners, social workers, support workers, professionals, etc, if you fit into these catering always let people know so people don't think your someone your not. For eg; only people with disabilities socialize with people disabilities.
17. No blocking Admin or member.
18. No getting involved with Admins personally, if anyone is it must be off the group and team.
19, If you face problems with anyone on this group, on the group or anywhere else, please provide us proof before blocking them so we don't block and remove people who haven't done wrong.
20. Not everyone knows people on the FB so if you feel a need to pm, someone, whether it's an Admin or a member ask them first unless you know them and spoke to them before, etc or you are already added to friend to or and to them before. No friends request either without someone's permission, we don't want reports of unexcepted PMS or and friends to request but please feel free to report them if you face them and remember to provide proof so we block and remove the person in the wrong, not in the right.
21. No request to the groups on more than 1 profile, more than 1 profile is confusing for the Admins.
22. No buying and selling anything to anyone on the group but donating anything to charities etc is fine.  One rule we have forgotten and I guess a lot of you wouldn't do this but it can be easily done for some people just a bit of advice.

1. 
The rules are there for everyone's safety, choices and feelings, which be there with everyone you come across so please respect one another for that even though it may be not what you hoped.
2. Now the choice is yours but you also need to think of others too. If things don't your way either accept it cause more people will be joining it just takes time and patience.

3.if you can't accept that leave the group. don't take it out on people if things don't go your ways or for any other reason.
4. Admin or member, Admins are here to work on the group, not to socialize please remember that.
5.If there are Admins here your already friends with etc from even when the group was set up, keep it well out of the group and the team. Also, there's a lot of people who don't know one another the FB, if you wish to pm anyone please ask their permission unless you know them, your friends with them already on or off the FB or and you have been PMing them already.
6. No blocking Admin. 
7.so we are respected for having set up this group for the purpose of even just trying to support you achieve what you want but even though we can't choose the people you mix with too cause that's down to you and them to decide that and respect one another's choices.
8. We are not asking for input 24.7 just even something once a day, not necessary for our benefit but yours and the reason why you joined in the first place, but yer also to make it worth our while in the sense.
9. No giving out personal details like names, addresses, email addresses, etc on the group or pm, etc. However'  we know when getting to know one another after so long you may give the home address but do please careful.
10. We can't promise forever trusting friendships but we are here for emotional support if things go wrong, by all means, report any problems you may face with others on the group we strictly need proof so we are not blocking and removing people who haven't done wrong.
11. Our advice is if you face any abuse etc on your pm, report it to us with the proof before you block the person so we can get them off the group if you added as a friend them on their pm block them after you have reported them to us, 

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