Sorry to go on but I must say that for those of us who face Mental health and mental illness, not everything is negative about us, in fact, it can be both positive and negative. In fact, in most people's cases, strangely most people stress people in trying to please people.
For example; they famous people who make us laugh on the tv, etc, there can be a lot of stress on these people to do the job the way they do and easy for us to think that's why they are all the time, which is mostly not the case. In private mostly most of them are struggling behind closed doors.
That doesn't necessarily mean they don't want to do the job they are doing. However' Kenneth William I heard wanted to be a more serious actor. In fact, in someone told me he wrote about not getting on with the Carry On crew. He and Tony Hancock both sadly took their own lives and yet very talented guys, which shows how much little help was around back then but more still needs to be done these days.https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/topics/British_male_comedy_actors
When people are feeling so low that life is too much for them, it's more than understanding mainly with those we know, we do anything we can to keep them alive, which there is no wrong in that but not saying it's always the case but it's easy not to think about what makes them feel that way. I guess there can be all different reasons why and why not they may say something.
As odd as this may sound sorry to say if they tell someone, it's not good what they are going through but good that they have told someone because goodness knows what could happen otherwise, which is why sorry to those who may disagree, I don't with them being told if you were going to do it, you would have done by now and that's not because someone told me when I was going through it, I don't wish it on anyone, sorry I cannot help but think this.
Apart from anything else the person who is saying it, could cause a misunderstanding with the person to who they are saying it to. I will be honest at a time when I had it said to me back in 1997, it didn't slip my mind but I still didn't feel very good about myself. Most people feeling very low in themselves may think the person who's saying it to them is wishing them to take their lives, which is not the way we want to make people feel.
It is not easy to know what causes people to feel as they do to a point of finding life too much unless they say but even they don't it's something and it is a huge concern. If they don't say there's a number of reasons why or even no reason at all, which I know is hard to understand but it possible to feel so down in yourself to reach a point with and without a reason.
Sorry, I have to stress if someone cannot give an answer themselves, no one should force an answer and a reason out of them because there isn't one and that doesn't necessarily mean they are hiding anything even, even if they are they are not lying when it comes to being very low in themselves, it is most likely to be either they are struggling to tell anyone or even certain people.
Therefore, whatever it is or isn't let's forus on how they are feeling is what is driving them to do, if it's serious enough life is too much to live for me, it calls to huge concerns, you need to find them helpful if you are not trained and qualified yourself but they have the right be made aware in concern of their safety, others around them and yours, which that they may or may not be alarmed at the time but they are more likely to thank you for being part of saving their lives if or when they feel better.
Just in the time the person is in a bad state of mind, Mental health can affect people in a different way, which could depend on the person, the Mental health problem they may be facing, even if they have other problems like disabilities, etc, many other things they may or may not be aware of their actions at the time because they may be distressed so just in case try and get help off someone you know if someone around asks them to or and if not and your outside somewhere like a pub, shop, ask for help in there or and call someone you know on your phone if needs be call 111.
If no one is around you depending on the person's state of mind, depending on whether or not they are safe to stay outside while you go inside where, if not you may have no choice but to take them with you if you on your own with them.
Just to say at the end of the paragraph, yes, it is sad if it's not a success, please do not blame yourself, which I know is easy for me to say, you have done your best. Hopefully, you may not need it, but there's help out there for you if you do so please don't feel you have to suffer alone, if naturally, this may have any effect on you or any other reason that may, etc. .https://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention.htm https://www.mind.org.uk/ https://www.rethink.org/ https://www.idealflatmate.co.uk/flatmate-HQ/top-10-uk-mental-health-charities/
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