Tuesday 20 April 2021

Making sense of Autism, Epliespy, Anixiety, stress,Depression, and ADHD

Autism, Epilepsy, Anxiety, Stress, Depression, and ADHD are all similar because they cause people to become, anxious, tense, angry, down in themselves one way or another. 

Mostly because of how the problems affect their lives and they just want to be themselves and ask for very little support if any from others but that's not mostly possible. These people don't want to be the center of attention to others and not put on others. ' However' life isn't all black and white if we don't make it that way, as a society we will not be able to no matter how we want to, wave magic wand and wow these people don't have these problems now and they need very little support like people who don't face them. The way around them is supporting them with what they need support with but also giving them self-confidence and concentrating to be positives of what they want and what could well be possible for them. Giving them more things on their minds to be as positive as possible in fact no, to empower them to bring on the positives they want for their future or try to. To try and understand we may not understand their wants and needs because so many of them are likely to want and need different things in thier lives but discovering what affects their lives in a different way so we can see how we can support what they want.

Autism affects how people communicate with others and how they interact, which causes anxiety, stress, and even depression because it can affect to how they get along with others. This can make socializing making friends hard, even how we get on with family, people we work, study with, etc but with encouraging and empowering social skills, etc, doesn't make it impossible for them to live their lives but all the same they struggle to be aware of the world and others around and how to feel, how to talk to people, etc. This why it is important for Autism awareness to be raised so people learn how to support people to communicate with people in a way they are misunderstood by others for people they are not. 

People with Autism struggle with route and change, which can make us stressed Anxious, even have meltdowns, etc if and when something changes for the better, worse, most of us may struggle to understand even why that change may be, easily alarmed by the unexcepted, etc. More to the point it may take us a while to get used to that change and mostly when to do, then realize possibly whatever the change or the reason is, after all, it was probley not a bad idea. As far support is concerned it may not stop people from feeling, Anxious, stressed, etc but empowering and encouraging positive thinking into the person's life at least starts to help with whatever the situation may be.

People with Autism, ADHD, Anxiety, etc may even struggle to report the most negative situation they may face, which not only be personal and private issues, which are their rights to keep themselves but there's also some that may be damaging to them if not told to someone who they can trust but then they may worry they may not be understood in case they struggle to express it in a way you or whoever they would choose to tell if they were going to tell anyone. 

When I was bullied etc in Boarding school etc I used to look forward to the weekends and holidays, then when I used to go back to school every time for my Mum and family to get me on the coach, I used to have meltdowns because I didn't want to go back and I found it hard to say why even though I tried to talk about but couldn't make myself understood and believed. Back there was no support such as child counseling etc. 

In many ways, Autism and (ADHD), Anxiety, and depression, stress are pretty similar where people struggle to communicate with others to be understood. (ADHD) can cause major behavior problems. However we need to consider the disorder they are facing but at the same time, they need to learn how to respect others around them just like everyone else does.

  The balance between teaching people right from wrong is hard because everyone exstream of behavior is different and by law, there's only so far you can go not that anyone in the right mind wants to go that far but it's hard if you come across someone who has major behavior problems however old they may be these days, whereas years ago you used to be able to teach right from wrong whatever exstream of behavior, which in some cases back then some punishments went too far.

 However, you shouldn't have to work in a situation where someone's behavior is too far out of hand however it is caused. I couldn't agree more on how hard it is these days how to react when etc without getting ourselves into trouble but then not letting the person get too out of our hands making it unpleasant for you and others around them, other than asking them to leave and getting someone who knows what they are doing to deal with them but hopefully you won't have face behaviors to that extreme. 

However' I am out of date with the treatment, counseling,  etc these days, whereas when I was a child, teenager, and young adult there was no treatment for ( ADHD), etc. 

We cannot be someone 24.7, which is good and bad but trying to bring in as many positives as possible may or may not always work but I cannot speak for others the same or similar to me but I am happy when others believe in me. 

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism



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